Found out two juniors got promoted every year while I waited 5 years for Senior. Am I being petty or is this genuinely unfair?
Okay I need a gut check because I’ve been stewing on this all evening and I can’t tell if I’m being reasonable or just bitter.
Our promotion policy leans heavily on years of experience. Basically a level every 2 years (3 YOE, 5 YOE, 7 YOE, and so on). I’ve been here almost 5 years now, made Senior Software Engineer riding that same track like everyone else. Paid my dues, waited my turn, didn’t make a fuss.
Then today I found out two juniors who’ve been here all of 2 years have been getting promoted every single year. Yes, they each came in with around 1.5 years of prior experience. But here’s the part that’s eating at me: they still joined at our absolute lowest title, the one we hand to total freshers. So how is it that they get a bump every year while the rest of us crawl up every two?
And honestly I feel kind of gross even typing this out, because part of me knows comparison is a trap and I should just be happy with where I am. But another part of me is sitting here going… wait, did I just quietly accept a slower path that nobody actually had to take?
So I need outside eyes. Am I being jealous and entitled here, or is there something real worth raising? And if it is worth raising, who do I even go to. My manager? HR? Higher up? Or do I just swallow it and let it go?
(AFor extra flavor, leadership is also going all-in on some AI-first push that’s already broken things in prod, so morale is hovering somewhere near the floor. Not helping my mood right now.)