Teaching in Hawaii

I’m a 45yo divorcee who is seriously thinking about relocating to Hawai’i to teach.

I have several years living expenses in savings and several years living expenses in alimony so the incredibly low pay isn’t as much of a deal breaker as it could be although I’m very aware that I’ll be bleeding cash for at least the first 6-8 years.

My concern centers around being able to afford to live long term. Drawing down savings will will hold me for a decade or so, but eventually the cash will be gone.

I doubt I’ll be able to do more than date casually and that the odds of remarrying or finding a partner who will ‘subsidize’ my low salary are very low. So many teachers come to the island and stay when they find themselves bankrupt? Do they have to leave teaching? (if they can even find another job?)

The HCOL doesn’t shock me, Boston is comparable, nor will ‘island fever’ bother me, but I do worry about becoming a pauper with both a teaching certificate and an MBA. Does anyone have thoughts besides ‘don’t come’?

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u/TwoAlert3448 — 2 days ago

Closet clean out

3 years procrastination. Yields 4x thredUP bags and 4x goodwill (trash bags). Put in an order for 3x more for the next pass. Whew!

u/TwoAlert3448 — 22 days ago
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Spoo & Divorce; how to?

Any one got any insight as to how standard poodles handle divorce? Besides ‘badly’. Ours won’t sleep unless he knows where both of us are and that’s increasingly going to become problematic.

Anyone tried joint custody or visitation? Or is it best just to rip the bandaid off?

I love my boy but I really do want what’s best for him and not what would make me feel better about the whole thing. Technically my service dog, but my husband is his ‘his person’

u/TwoAlert3448 — 1 month ago