What do Japanese Women find attractive in Foreign men?

Hello I'm Mike I'm a student living in Japan for an undergraduate degree. My question is why do Japanese women often like to date foreign men regardless of the language barrier?. Like sometimes they don't understand each other but the idea of someone being tall muscular or even foreign seems to interest them a lot. I have a friend She's Japanese and I speak Japanese with her a lot and We often talk about love and types and for sure I know that her type is blue eyes tall biceps guy because she talks about it so much when we hangout. The main problem is she can't speak English very well even tho she practices a lot and tends to escape Japanese when she's talking to foreigners as well. I don't see the comparison or compatibility to her and foreigners that don't speak Japanese. I mean sure there are some people that do speak Japanese but that's less than a few thousand foreigners living in Japan.

One other aspect of it is maybe because I tried countless times to find a date in Japan but failed 😛 🗿 is it because they prefer another country not particularly Asian? but European or American?

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u/Typical-Tourist-4830 — 3 days ago

20M-What do women find attractive in Men other then physical and style?

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Hello 👋🏻, Im Mike im 20 years old and I want genuine tips and answers on this to ease my curiosity ofc because I had some women fall in love with me both online and offline although I didn't intend it to be even tho I was just complimenting and being respectful most of them do even if I never even talk too them or meet them irl.I do believe in charismatic charm and being positive that they are able to be charmed but I don't understand why a simple compliment can set them on a love journey in the first place.

I often share with many people that I want a relationship that respects each other from their dreams and what they want to achieve especially from my side to support her and also work on myself to make her happy and buy what she wants in the future this is mainly because of having experience with my ex that was kinda toxic and I didn't enjoy it but I also think that this is because of what a man does in his routines and his daily life like sports, self care, not drinking or even smoking or even physical like muscles,height or even mental state...

I just feel lost cause 🗿 I make many strangers offline or online fall in love with me but when it comes to people I know and I want to start relationships with they often become skeptical and reject me.

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u/Typical-Tourist-4830 — 3 days ago

Offering:English,Japanese, Indonesian I Seeking:Japanese, Korean

Hello everyone my name is Mike,I'm an English native studying in Japan and I'm currently a 3rd year student studying in Global Business based in Nagoya. Currently I can speak English and Indonesian with Intermediate Japanese please feel free to contact me in either language to learn or just to talk thank you.

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u/Typical-Tourist-4830 — 18 days ago