M 32 | Bangalore | Firmly Childfree | Jake Looking for his Amy

I’m Simar, 32, a software engineer based in Bangalore (here for about a decade). I’m Sikh, grounded, articulate, and value peace, mutual respect, and emotional maturity above everything else.

Lifestyle & Interests:

  • Profession: Tech / Senior Software Engineer.
  • Fitness & Health: I stay active through regular outdoor runs, walks, and home workouts, and I focus on eating clean, home-cooked food.
  • Passions: I’m an amateur mixologist, an avid reader, an F1 nerd, and a total beach baby at heart who loves ocean resets.
  • Vibe: Non-smoker, occasional social drinker. I’m naturally drawn to deep, 2 AM conversations about random rabbit holes, philosophy, or great food over endless small talk.

Why Childfree: I am firmly childfree by choice. For me, a fulfilling life is about building a strong, zero-drama partnership, pursuing personal growth, traveling, and enjoying freedom together—without the lifelong responsibility of raising children.

What I’m Looking For: Looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship with an emotionally mature, communicative woman (roughly 30–35) who is equally settled on being childfree. Someone who values clear, honest communication, has her own life and ambitions, and wants a true best-friend style partnership built on equality and humor.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a little about yourself!

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u/UchihaSimar — 1 day ago

[M4F] 32 | Bangalore | Software Engineer | Firmly Childfree & Looking for a Genuine Partnership

I’m Simar, 32, a software engineer based in Bangalore (here for about a decade). I’m Sikh, grounded, articulate, and value peace, mutual respect, and emotional maturity above everything else.

Lifestyle & Interests:

  • Profession: Tech / Senior Software Engineer.
  • Fitness & Health: I stay active through regular outdoor runs, walks, and home workouts, and I focus on eating clean, home-cooked food.
  • Passions: I’m an amateur mixologist, an avid reader, an F1 nerd, and a total beach baby at heart who loves ocean resets.
  • Vibe: Non-smoker, occasional social drinker. I’m naturally drawn to deep, 2 AM conversations about random rabbit holes, philosophy, or great food over endless small talk.

Why Childfree: I am firmly childfree by choice. For me, a fulfilling life is about building a strong, zero-drama partnership, pursuing personal growth, traveling, and enjoying freedom together—without the lifelong responsibility of raising children.

What I’m Looking For: Looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship with an emotionally mature, communicative woman (roughly 30–35) who is equally settled on being childfree. Someone who values clear, honest communication, has her own life and ambitions, and wants a true best-friend style partnership built on equality and humor.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a little about yourself!

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u/UchihaSimar — 2 days ago
▲ 5 r/Mixology+1 crossposts

Sunday night mixology shenanigans!!!

After a long time, I got some space to think of a nice refreshing mocktail/cocktail recipe!!!

Presenting, the Jamun Gin & Tonic!!!

u/UchihaSimar — 4 days ago