Doxxing is never okay
Her comments should be turned off. Also, if I was J, I would re-evaluate who I keep close to me and confide in. To have a "friend" come into the snark and share that personal information is awful. I am sure she will use the hate comments and that post as evidence that J is making "calculated" moves against her. It's just so far beyond snark at this point..
Edit: The fact that people are assuming this take means I am defending A is so weird. The "calculated" moves comment is what I am assuming from her court filing, where she was calling his emergency filing a deliberate action to "disrupt" her move. They're both going to continue being petty with each other. It unfortunately is what it is in family court, but regardless, the bot doxxing comments are uncalled for and weird. I think we can all call a spade a spade there.