We all know the two week wait is horrible. I had my iui on 09/24. What do you guys do to keep busy and keep your mind off testing. I feel like I want to test everyday but that may cause some emotional stress and disappointment. I tested and triggered out yesterday. I have about a week left. Its such a long time!
AIW if I cant attend my best friends wedding and tell her I cant be a bridesmaid?
My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for 5 years. After 2 losses and tons of tests and planning we were devastated. I finally was able to afford a fertillity expert thanks to my new job that has amazing health benefits. We went just to see if it was possible and after working for a few months I can get inseminated in july. The doctor told me that if not july we would have to push back to almost a year after but we are so excited and with my health dont want to wait. It turns out im experiencing major issues with my health and its kinda imperative to have kids now if I want them.
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About a month ago my bestfriend asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding and she doesnt know I have been going to the fertillity expert. I didnt want to take away from her exciting wedding planning. Her wedding is in april next year exactly 9 months away from my insemination which means I will be giving birth around that time. I dont want to not participate but I feel like being reliable is going to be hard let alone trying to do a bridesmaid trip and bachorloette party while 7-8 months pregnant and also finding a dress that will fit...if im not giving birth while shes walking down the asile. Would I be wrong?