Hledám pro dítě autoškolu, ideálně takovou, která není přímo v Brně kvůli zkušebním komisařům zde, kteří už mají pověst, že vyhazují za maličkosti.
Kde jste byli spokojeni? Díky.
Edit: díky za tipy, nechci samozřejmě, aby se učila jezdit na venkově. Naopak, potřebuju nacvicit brněnský provoz, ale zkoušky ne s brnenskymi komisaři
I had a moment yesterday when I couldn't resist and looked at his fb profile and realised he had changed his relationship status. We were never friends on fb so I can't see, but I can guess that he has a rebound.
We were together for 3,5 years, lived together, and he discarded me two months ago.
Looking at that broke me. Even knowing that he's a FA, knowing that our relationship couldn't last, that he won't wait long before finding someone new, feeling sorry for her because he will have the same patterns and it will end exactly the same.
Knowing all that doesn't stop the pain...that our relationship didn't matter, that I'm so easily replaceable, it's just too much.
I blocked him today on all the apps apart from phone number, but I guess it's time to just cut the cord.
Did you stay in contact with the FA? Or not? Did you regret it?
Ok, so I'm two months after the discard and I'm much better than I was.
I know it's not a relationship that would have been forever, I know he's going to find someone else, I know all this.
Yet, when I saw that he changed his fb status to 'taken', it still hurts bad. Ouch. I knew he'd move on quickly, he stopped liking me a few weeks before the break up, so he probably feels like we've been done for a while and he can find someone else to hyperfocus on.
Still...ouch. I bet he deleted all our photos by now...everything that showed how much we were in love once.
I shouldn't feel this bad about it...I knew this would happen. But I do.
I know how discard works, but I still don't get it. How can they go from loving good night messages to just throwing us away like garbage ?
Like...a few weeks ago he would text me to make sure I got home safe, and now he doesn't care anymore. No contact, nada. Not his problem anymore.
They say that the love was real and they just couldn't deal with the overwhelm of a relationship becoming serious. Like...how? It was him who was keen on moving the relationship forward. Meeting family, mpving in with him, spending time with my teens, being a part of family functions...
It feels like the moment they got what they wanted, they were a firm part of my and my children's lives, they dipped. Honestly exactly the moment when I started feeling really settled into the relationship, the stress of wondering whether they will get on with everyone in my life, they decided they don't want to be in it.
I'm getting out of the sad phase and getting into the 'who gives a *** about a man who decided that he doesn't love me anymore' phase.
He brought my stuff over on Sunday, neatly packed in boxes. We went for a short walk on my request, I needed to tell him some things.
Nice things, mainly. Thanked him for the relationship and the love he gave me, because that was wonderful. Told him how disappointed I was that he didn't share any of the doubts about our relationship in the last weeks.
We cried, hugged, wished each other well and said goodbye.
I was devastated again but felt like I needed this closure.
Later the next day, he realised that I forgot to return his house keys, and I realised that he forgot to pack some little bits and pieces. It made me laugh, such a sentimental goodbye, and it became a comedy.
Met again shortly to swap the things yesterday and it felt like he's a stranger now. Five minutes, there you go, bye. Will probably never see him again.
Oh, well. Such beautiful 3,5 years, and this is how it ends...
He is coming to return me my stuff this evening. I'm bracing myself so that I can do it calmly and with my head heald high, even though I'm sure I will cry later.
I wanted to tell him so many things...I can't sleep at night and my mind keeps writing scenarios of what to say. I wanted to tell him how his sudden break up with me shook me to the core because I didn't expect it. How I wish he talked with me about his doubts about our relationship.
But I'm beginning to see that it's pointless. He doesn't care. There's nothing to say apart from thank you for loving me and thank you for finishing it when you stopped loving me and have a good life.
I just messaged my ex to arrange having my stuff returned. We lived together, so it's quite a lot.
He offered to bring it over which was sweet.
He broke up with me three weeks ago and it was very unexpected and I have been pretty shattered. Felling better this week so messaged him, but as soon as the messages were over, I cried again.
I hope I can wrap it up with dignity on Sunday and just thank him for the love he gave me and how he showed me how lovely a relationship can be after my bad marriage.
I know I have to focus on myself now but can't help wondering if I can ever meet a man so good to me again. I'm scared that's not possible.
Alas, he chose not to love me anymore, nothing I can do.
He broke up with me on Thursday after 3,5 years unexpectedly and I'm hurting so bad today.
I know I have to accept it and move on, trying to keep busy, but can't stop thinking about him and us together.
What hurts most is how a person who claimed he loved me (and who showed love consistently) could not tell me about his doubts about our relationship. Yes, we would have had some uncomfortable conversations I guess and it wouldn't have changed the fact that he didn't want the relationship anymore, but this feels like being thrown down a cliff by the person I trusted completely.
Jeez it hurts. Having a really bad day today.