u/Unlegitmate_seeker28

Should I find a new vet? *trigger warning: abscess*

Should I find a new vet? *trigger warning: abscess*

So, our regular vet we’ve seen for the last 7 years we recently brought our new rescue to him! He’s a tiny 4lb, 7 year old chihuahua, it was just for a check up and the vet recommended he get vaccinated for leptospira which is something my other chihuahua has been vaccinated with before and never had reactions with so I gave the go ahead and they did it right in front of us, in his right arm. He didn’t cry and seem to have no problems, or so it seemed, he had a small mass underneath which seem to get bigger and bigger until it was dollar coin sized and that was approximately week after the original injection, he wasn’t bearing weight and avoided us so we had scheduled a follow up with the vet but decided to take him to the ER instead and come to find out he has an abscess at his injection site and needed to have it cleaned out and sutured because it was so large. He’s on antibiotics, gabapentin and meloxicam and has to wear a cone, and it all cost about a little under 1000$, it was all sent to our regular vet and what upset me more than anything there was no follow up from the vet. No asking if he’s okay, or letting me know there gonna follow up with the vaccine distributor to make sure it wasn’t a bad batch, nothing. It makes me want to cancel everything and find a new vet.

u/Unlegitmate_seeker28 — 7 hours ago

If I take him back, this would be my third dog I’m returning.

I lost my soul dog of 15 years in October 2025, he died due to chronic kidney disease and for the last 8 months of his life I was his primary care giver. My whole world was about him, from the moment I woke up to the moment I went to sleep, everything I did was with him in mind. Now he’s gone and since then I’ve felt so lost, without reason. His sister is still here, and I love her and I’ve been happy with here but there’s this void inside of me that eats at me and I haven’t truly been happy since I’ve lost my best friend. I’ve wanted to bring another dog into the mix, the first was a chihuahua who we were told was submissive and she ended up attacking our resident dog after three days of being at our house with teeth, so we made the choice to bring her back to the shelter because we were worried about our resident dog since she is blind and is so much smaller. The second dog, we had kept resource guarding and bearing teeth at our resident dog so again after several days we made the decision to bring him back due to the fear of him attacking her especially since they would be home alone for some hours when we go to work. Now finally we have our current dog and so far everything is going well. He gets along well with our resident chihuahua, he is a happy dog and is sweet as can be but is not potty trained at 7 years old and has a lot of physical aliments going on and I don’t know if I’m feeling overwhelmed by my grief of my other dog or if I’m going crazy and I know I will be judged but I felt like I made the right choice at that time for them. I keep thinking about how stressed I am with him in the house and how less stressed I was with him but I took him in and made the choice but I didn’t expect it to be this hard but I know everyone would hate me for taking him back and everyone already thinks I’m crazy, but I just miss my dog and I wish he was here.

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u/Unlegitmate_seeker28 — 16 days ago