career finally worked out but theres no one to share any of it with
self employed, 28. work wise everything clicked in the last few years. earning more than i ever imagined i would, parents get whatever they want now, no financial stress at all. genuinely grateful for that part.
but thats literally all i have. no social life. its my own business so it runs 24x7, i work through the night most days. no office, no colleagues, no work friends, nothing. and im in a city where theres no scene either. tried all the apps, deleted and reinstalled so many times, nothing real ever comes out of it. 3 years single now.
the funny part is when i was struggling and had nothing, i was in a relationship. wanted to do everything for her but couldnt afford anything. now i can do everything, trips, gifts, whatever, and theres no one. lifes timing is a joke honestly.
im not even sad about it most days, work keeps me fully occupied and i actually like what i do. its just sometimes i hit a milestone or something good happens and theres no one to tell except my parents. thats the only part that gets me.
anyone else at this stage? career sorted, grind paid off, but zero idea how to actually meet someone now when your whole life is work. do you just accept it or does it change at some point.
just putting this out there.