u/Unusual_Anybody_4734

Hey, I went clubbing and pulled this girl. We danced and stuffed, and she seemed really into me and my humour. Due to logistical issues, I could not kiss her close, but I did get an enthusiastic number close where she really wanted to meet up some other time. Anyway, it’s the next day, and I want to get the ball rolling on her and meet up with her in the coming week so our connection and vibe would be and stay the same, and I don’t want to wait too long. So, esteemed and experienced PUAs, lmk how or what kind of text should I send her. I was thinking of something along the lines of:
Me: Hey, it’s OP from last night at club name. I had a banger time. Let’s run it up again sometime.
Her: Positive Response
Me: Yk what? I don’t want to wait till next weekend. let’s go Chinatown and we’ll grab some boba(she mentioned she loves boba). You live close to it, so I’ll come by at like 3 pm on Wednesday.
Her: Positive agreement. Deal sealed. OR Further elaboration on logistical issues which can be settled to confirm a different day and time.
So, guys, is there any reason it won’t work or is there a better route? Please lmk.

Guys, I am solid with opening outside and at night or at least decent at it, but now how tf do I open at a gym? There are so many baddies, but idk what to say or how to start a convo with someone with headphones in and then continue the conversation and make it fun in the gym when we both got shit to be doing. So drop your situations or field reports or openers or frameworks or anything needed to spit fire game at the gym.

I got let into this event that was happening at a club and was just dancing and vibing with my friends when I saw these two girls sitting down by the tables. So I opened them with “You guys aren’t calling it a night already, are you?”—a teasing, playful opening that invites conversation. Bare in mind, this is like at 1 or 2 after I had warmed up with some other people throughout the night, so I wasn’t taking the whole thing too seriously. So I pulled them both to dance with on the floor. We danced for a bit before one of the girls noticed she lost her phone, after which we all started to look for it but couldn’t find it. I suggested checking behind the DJ booth, and she found her phone. She was in a much better mood, so we kept dancing while I kept on kinoing to ensure the vibe was up. After which, I took her to the back, and her sister left us alone to chat, where I was spitting game, talking, and stuff my hand on her legs and even more kino plus physical contact while she was constantly throwing shit tests at me, asking why I talked to her sister first and not her and all the nonsense. I answered her questions sarcastically and sometimes didn’t respond. After which, I number and Insta closed her, but I fumbled the kiss close on her. She was like, “Yk, I’m not easy,” and others were shipping us, saying we looked cute together, but I was so close to her, but I didn’t know how to further escalate, so we kept vibing talking, where in she would lean closer and away, just a lot of push-pull and teasing. I dropped the mystery question in the middle, asking, “Do you wanna kiss me?” And she laughingly said no, but then I said I never said you could, and we joked about it. She was also kinda drunk, and I’m cautious about not doing some dumb shit with a girl who’s not fully locked in. Afterwards, we danced some more, and that was fun. Then outside the club, I waited a bit with them for their Uber and sent them off. Overall, my biggest weakness is not knowing how to kiss close because I was right there. Realistically, I’m sure it could be done if I were a more experienced person. It might have happened, but I don’t know a kiss-close sequence as in how do I go from full kino on the legs and thighs leaning in laughing and joking to a kiss-close? What are some things I need to do or say or both such that it doesn’t feel like an intentional thing but more like a “just happened” thing? So yeah, any advice to help me improve based on this field report?

Like the title says I don’t know how to actually score at a nightclub. Like how do I go from walking in to getting a make out and get a girl to leave. It’s too loud to do say anything and girls are usually dancing and engaged in group activities which makes approaching hard like I genuinely don’t know what to do how to approach in a non creepy way at the night club so it doesn’t seem like I’m trying to interrupt on interfering. But also a deeper confession I know it’s possible I’ve seen guys just walk in and in a few minutes go in for the make out with 10s and not get rejected I don’t understand what or how was this accomplished like how did he do so easily what I am struggling with and is my main sticking point I have terrible understanding of how night club game works. So pls share advice and infield experience to help me progress at this

More often than not, I find myself struggling with this point. I’m able to open a set or a girl we are having a conversation. I’ve started off with light kino just so it’s an established and expected aspect, and then the conversation just ends up going nowhere. Like, I know I’m supposed to be isolating and closing, but I feel like there isn’t enough man-to-woman rapport build-up when I can isolate and make the next escalation or even more man-to-woman talk during the escalation so that the kiss close actually happens and feels natural for her. I feel man-to-woman talk is crucial as it takes you from a nice guy she just met to someone she is interested in escalating with. So please share tips and advice not only regarding what to say but how and when to say it.

One of the hardest points of struggle experienced when sarging is opening a person or set, so do share some nice and high-success openers that lead to better and more enjoyable conversations rather than just boring openers. Sure, I know a good smile and introduction can work well as well, but a solid opener also works as a value add, something to separate you from the last ten guys approaching as well.

I have no problem opening or talking to women. I am still working on creating emotional spikes and urgency via negs, so I was wondering how many times should I neg before I make a move of affection? Also, is it different in person or over text? As I neg in both, attempting to build more of an emotional roller coaster and have her work for affection in a non-needy manner.

Essentially, I don't understand where to cleave a molecule in mass spectrometry or why a particular cleavage is favored over others.I also struggle to determine which fragmentation mechanism to apply. For example, if I see a carbonyl group, I know that α-cleavage is often important, but I don't really understand why a specific bond breaks, which fragment retains the positive charge(I know the most stable one will retain it) , or how to predict the resulting ions.More importantly, I'm having trouble seeing how these fragment ions help identify the structure of a molecule or distinguish between possible isomers. I can memorize rules such as \"carbonyls undergo α-cleavage\" or \"look for a McLafferty rearrangement,\" but I don't feel like I understand the underlying reasoning well enough to apply them confidently to unfamiliar molecules.