u/Unusual_Pea15

My partner has officially blocked my mom. My partner was at an event where he didn’t see my mom and he walked right past her and she was trying to say hi to him and she got offended because she thought he ignored her. My partner sent her an apology text when he found out what he did. She ignored his message and never responded. My mom does not handle conflict well and is someone who just sweeps it under the rug. My partner likes to address conflict. This was months ago. My mom then came to visit and my partner and her had a nice time but he did bring up in person that he wanted to speak with her about the message and what happened and she basically told him another time. I ended up talking to my mom multiple times and told her it was important to me that they talk about it. She texted him to try to set up a call but whenever he was free she said she wasn’t. This back and forth went on for a few days. My partner got angry and then blocked her…… I don’t know what to do.

I think I have been dumped but I am not sure. My fiance is very angry at me because I was disrespectful and it stressed him out. He threatened to end it last night since the stress caused him a medical issue with his eye because of my disrespect. Today when I woke up he has not responded to any texts or calls. Which is so unusual. We do not live together but are constantly calling or texting and always say good morning. It’s now mid afternoon and I haven’t heard anything from him which is not normal. I think this means he is done with the relationship but I have no idea since he is not responding to me. He potentially was going to have eye surgery this morning (dependent on how his check up went this morning) so now I’m also worried that something has happened. But he blames his need for eye surgery on me since it was stress induced due to my disrespect. I don’t know what to do or what is happening.

I have been trying to implement the Laura Doyle skills but it has not been easy for me. I do not find them intuitive and am constantly trying and feel like I’m falling short. My fiance is sick of the disrespect and has now essentially ended the relationship. He is tired of hearing me say that I am trying to work on respect. I’m not sure what to do. I want to keep trying and working on it. He has totally withdrawn and is unresponsive to me. We do not live together but are engaged and were planning on marriage next year or the year after.