u/UrPrettyBb

Problem/Goal: Should I just stay away and leave him to save both of our sanity?

Context: So there is this guy I am currently dating, I admit, he didn’t come from a wealthy family, he’s working 9hrs a day as a housekeeper and use it to support his family. He’s just a year older than me pero our life seems to be far from each other. May mga priorities na siya na sa ngayon hindi ko pa priority, I get it, he’s working already for his fam and me, I am still studying. He admit it din naman na wala siyang sapat na emotional and financial capacity sa ngayon, and sa totoo lang, naiintindihan ko naman yun. Pero tuwing nagkakaproblema kasi kami, he always ends up saying that I should just dismiss my traumas from the past and then he’ll straight up compare my life to his na he had it rougher than me, of course I feel invalidated kasi magkaiba naman kami ng mga problemang tinahak sa buhay, maaring for him mababaw pero para sakin, isa yun sa bumubuo kung sino ako. Tuwing nagsasabi ako about sa mga past na nagyari sakin, ang ending tinetake niya yon against him and he always say na “so tingin mo lang pala sakin tulad ng iba”, ni hindi na ko nga siya nacompare sa kahit anong aspect kasi sapat na ko sa kung anong maooffer niya sakin sa ngayon. Ang akin lang naman, kaya ko kinekwento yung mga bagay na nangyari from my past, is gusto ko lang makilala niya ako, kung bakit ganito ako, at kung sino o ano yung mga bagay na bumuo sa taong kaharap niya ngayon. So the question is, should I just leave him???