u/Url2828

I(20F) personally feel like when Ive never really been inclined to present a lot of arguments, I do hold strong beliefs and values but i've never wanted to or felt like I should present them unless for a certain cause (that too very occasionally) and unless the person in front of me is genuinely invested and coming from a place of curiosity and respect.

And I feel like this has made me quite complacent in some aspects, especially in developing or constructing logically sound narratives while speaking - let alone actually participating in stimulating arguementative conversations - and I wish to work on this more.

I was curious to know if anyone else has felt the same way or ever felt behind in this aspect and how they developed this skill, sounds like a very general question but I would love to hear some anecdotes.