My mom is basically upset that im growing into my own person
For context, my mom is religious while im atheist. She makes comments about the music I listen to, talking about how I used to listen to "thought provoking" songs but now its all swearing, ect. (Not true..but i let her have it. I dont feel like fighting) for my 20th birthday, I asked for more ear peircings. I had my 1st set done when I was a baby. But i did the second holes myself and a third on my left ear.
When my mom saw said ear piercings, she didn't worry abt the sanitation (I used sterial things) she didn't worry abt healing. Nope! She cared about what the Bible said and how that would make her look as a parent. She also this weird affinity for making me look like a Christian hater when I ask genuine questions abt the Bible. (Again, I'm an atheist that shes trying to convert)
For example "if god can see everything and control everything, why didnt he stop the snake if he knew what was gonna happen."
Or my favorite
"If god knew Satan was gonna go against him, why couldn't he just shut them down before it started"
Like, hello?
And she gets upset when I ask these questions, but again, if someone genuinely doesn't know, I respect the simple "i dunno" over any bullshit answer.