Solo in bangkok

Hi everyone!
I’m a 31F traveling solo to Bangkok for 10 days at the end of October. I’ve been to Thailand before, but this time I’m planning to stay mostly in Bangkok to keep things budget-friendly.
I’d love to hear your recommendations! Are there any nice and affordable places near Bangkok that would be worth visiting for a day trip or an overnight stay?
Also, what would you recommend doing in Bangkok for 10 days without spending too much?
I’m also interested in bars and nightlife. Since I’m traveling alone, I’d love recommendations for places that are fun, safe, and easy to go to solo — preferably not super touristy or overly crowded.
I’m open to anything: food, markets, sightseeing, nature, day trips, bars, nightlife, or hidden gems. 😊
Thanks!

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u/Vanessa23cool — 10 days ago

Remote jobs

Hello! 😊
I am currently looking for a remote job opportunity. I am fluent in both French and English and have basic Korean language skills.
I have experience in different fields, including cooking, management, and customer service. I am a hardworking, reliable, and motivated person who learns quickly and is always willing to develop new skills.
I am open to different types of remote opportunities and am willing to learn and work hard, even in a new field. If you know of any remote job opportunities or are looking for someone motivated and reliable, please feel free to contact me!
Thank you!

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u/Vanessa23cool — 1 month ago

Hotel

Hi im going to bangkok in one month for 1-2 weeks and im looking for the best area and best hotel you think they have there . I just want a swimming pool in the hotel my plans is only shopping and swimming nothing crazy for nightlife . Let me know where is the best hotel and comfy bed you had there. My price will be 50-100 per night

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u/Vanessa23cool — 2 months ago

Wife?

I’m 31F and I’ve been dating a 44M in South Korea for 4 months. We had communication issues at first, but our relationship has been much better over the past month.
The only thing that worries me is that he’s never invited me to his home. He’s very successful and wealthy, and we always stay in hotels. We go out together in public, he doesn’t hide me, and he’s even let me use his private phone, so I haven’t found anything suspicious.
When I ask about going to his place, he says he’s not ready because his last relationship ended 10 years ago and he hasn’t let anyone into his home since.
Part of me wants to trust him, but another part wonders if he could secretly be married or in another relationship. My friends think it’s a red flag.
Would you be patient, or would you see this as a sign to be cautious?

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u/Vanessa23cool — 3 months ago

Am I delusional?

Hi,
I met a men a few months ago at my job and since our first meeting we are always togheter when we have time or not. I never met a men who is similar as me like him . We have a huge age gap im 31 he is 47+ we were scared at first and nervous but i can feel we need to be togheter and feel each other. I met him in a weird place where in Korea we cant be there is kinda illegal and all the men who is there cheated on the wife or wtv ( i worked in karaoke here ) . The things is , everytime i want him to meet my friends and make some excuses said in last minute sorry i have some meeting or if i said something about relationship he kinda try to change subject.

Yesterday, i want to be clear about us and i asked him what we were but he changed subject AGAIN! We didnt talked for 10 long minutes so i asked him why he never bring me to his home like always hotel hotel hotel no answers. Im so scared that he have a secret wife or gf i even said in the beginning just tell me everything i will accept it and he said he doesnt have one only me but idk what to do .. i want a real relationship im tired to be a sextoy i dont know how should i bring it up again without him freaking out.. am i crazy to think he hide something ?

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u/Vanessa23cool — 4 months ago

Relationship

Hi, i need advice and real thoughts about my my relationship with my guy . I met him in a strange environment that is not a nice place to be in South korea. All the men come there to cheat on their wife or gf. Nothing crazy but here is not legal to come here . Anyway, when i first met him i thought he is different for other men i found in the bar and we kinda clicked all the way through at first time. He is really older than me like me 31 and him 50 . I try at first to not see him outside of work because when i worked l dont meet my customer outside ( im a hostess) but him he came a lot of time to meet me and everytime we saw each other is like we were talking to ourselves because we are so similar .

He worked 6-7 days per week because he is a ceo but me i dont care that he always working or not . The only issue i have is i dont know if he is telling me all truth or no. I found it strange that at his aged he never been married or never talked about his ex or wtv ( in korea most of the people at 30 are married). Im always with him when he he some time break of his worked he called me to be with him even if i only have 1 hours break he will come to see me. But when i asked to meet my friends to come at important events he kinda .. likes make excuse at the last minute and im pissed .

We talked about our feeling already but im too shy to asked him about what we are or not . I never been to his home and im scared to ask him because everytime i asked about his past he got angry and changed subject. Today i was with him it was perfect i was supposed to sleep with him in hotel but then when i told him im on my period he cancelled everything . I was going to cry cuz i think maybe he just use my for sex and nothing else and just lying about his feeling .. i know i should talk with him but im really lost and scared he will leave me or telling me the truth

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u/Vanessa23cool — 5 months ago

Visa

Hi so im living in korea for 3 months now but my visa expired one year ago and now im currently in keta for 90 days but last time i think the lady thought im in visa run so she asked me like 15 questions and i got stressed really easily. What answer should i said when i will come back to my vacation? Is it easier to be in gimpo airport or is the same interview they asked ?

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u/Vanessa23cool — 5 months ago

Relationships

So i am with a men much much older then me 49 im 31 , everything was perfect but today idk why he suddenly questioned my attention about what is my expectations of us. I just said i need time to thing because we just met but i started to like him a lot but he think i just like his money because he is rich but i never asked for anything NEVER ! I work for
My money but the restaurant and date where he bring me is out of my league so he always paid and i keep suggesting to go somewhere cheaper and pleasant but he likes his fancy rich place i dont mind but i dont like to be accused for something i am not .. he keep saying that all the womens used him for his money and he started crying but i keep
Saying that i am not like that at all but im a normal person not a billionaire who i can be 50$ a glass of wine lol After he said he doesnt want to be married or have a kids which I expect and anyway i feel
The same way. But after he said he doesnt want any private relationship and idk what to do because for me i really want someone to be by my side like a real boyfriend but him… it really hurt me and idk if i should seing him or not cuz i dont think i can change his mind.. Idk what should i do im reallly worried i already like him a lot but im scared to falling in love and then found out he is cheating on me or dating other girls like my ex… what should i do ?

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u/Vanessa23cool — 5 months ago

Hi,

So i have to know your opinion guys .. i met a men not too long ago and i never experienced that. We are so similar, we never argue he listen to me never judge he is like the perfect gentlemen .. the only thing is the age because im 31 he is.. 62 years old but look like a 40 and really more in shape than me lol I never care about aged and even him dont understand why we like each other that much with a such different age .. i already met all his friends and colleagues (in korea is a big things ) but my family idk if they will understand why i am with him..

People on the street look at me weirdly like usual anyway but i feel they judge me to be with him.. i always date guys on my age but they always disappointed me but him idk the first time i saw him i was so myself and free maybe this is why i started to like him? Do you think im crazy to like a men who is double of my age .. is it a good idea that my crazy family meet him…? My friends already met him and they understand better why they never saw me like it .. but im so lost😂

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u/Vanessa23cool — 5 months ago