u/VannahBananaSmith

How do I report this? 15 years ago a highschool coach/teacher was fooling around with myself and a few others that are younger than me, first semester. I was a senior at the time and had no support at home. So when the rumors started swirling, I dropped out over Christmas break. The teacher was told to resign and left town so fast. He tried to convince me to go with him and filled me with promises, I got a bad feeling and left the motel. I told my parents I was moving in with my friend Allison, and they knew I was lying about everything yet they never tried to protect me and ignored all of this. My mom actually laughed and got annoyed that my highschool best friend was still posting about this bothering her like 7 years ago. I've observed a pattern my parents have always had of either allowing me to date older guys, insisting I date older guys, or making me flirt when I was way too young..with older guys. I haven't spoken to them in 3 years and it's been eye opening. The teacher was probably 27 when this happened. Taking me on secret dates, a collage basketball game a few hours away, sneaking me in his house while his wife he was divorcing was there, and he was very sexual, always. He even gave me a fake engagement ring that turned green after leaving town.

He sent me a nasty video like 10 years later, new wife, new life...same crusty teacher.

Since then he's been a teacher at a handful of places in Texas, his last was a Catholic school. His LinkedIn says he left there last year and is now selling like life insurance or something, complete change.

I'm hoping someone else already reported him with him not at a school.

I have no money for a lawyer and I don't want to face him in court anxiety wise.

He was a former OSU student coach before he officially became a teacher/ highschool coach and his family has money and I'm guessing lots of secrets.

I on the other hand have no supportive family and no money.

He's extremely looked up to by many, including his kids he had since.

I remember standing at the last Halloween parade of school for me and he kept whispering baby names at me.."Paxtonnnnnn"..I had literally just turned 18 ahhh!

I remember him sending me wedding pictures/designs/ideas to my computer in computer class.

Kissing me on campus.

I remember EVERYTHING.

And there were a few other friends that were younger than me who said he was messing with them too.

How do I handle this?

I'm tired of seeing the news of these cases knowing it happened to me and I was too scared to speak up.

This guy showcases perfectly that we the people want true peace, ideal leaders in position, and to not only be heard but for them to understand how bad this is for all of us.