Am I falling out of love, or am I just emotionally drained?
I need some honest advice because I feel like my relationship is slowly falling apart, and I’m not sure if I’m overreacting or if I’m just emotionally exhausted. My boyfriend spends a huge amount of time on his phone, and he’s so untidy that I often have to remind him multiple times to do basic things around the house. When I try to talk to him about something he did that hurt me, he rarely takes responsibility and instead brings up things I’ve done in the past. He has also screamed at me in front of other people, which was embarrassing and hurtful. Another issue is that I feel like he doesn’t want to grow as a person or work on his shortcomings. We also barely do anything together anymore. We rarely go on dates or make plans outside the house, and when I bring it up, he says we already spend enough time together because we’re at home together so much. To me, being in the same space isn’t the same as actually connecting. Lately, I feel like the relationship has become stagnant, and honestly, I feel drained. I’m starting to question whether I even want this relationship anymore, but I don’t know if I’m falling out of love or if I’m just tired of feeling unheard and unappreciated. Has anyone been in a similar situation, and how did you know whether it was time to keep trying or to walk away?
It’s a 2 year relationship