u/Vast-Nebula5895

I honestly don’t know how to feel right now and I need outside opinions.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. Earlier today, right after he got out of the bathroom, I saw that he had opened a porn site on his phone. Normally maybe I wouldn’t think too much of it, but lately we’re rarely intimate anymore, and seeing that really hurt me.

I can’t stop thinking that maybe he’s not sexually attracted to me anymore or that I’m just not enough for him. It’s not even necessarily the porn itself, it’s more the combination of that plus the lack of intimacy between us lately

I honestly don’t know how to feel right now and I need outside opinions.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. Earlier today, right after he got out of the bathroom, I saw that he had opened a porn site on his phone. Normally maybe I wouldn’t think too much of it, but lately we’re rarely intimate anymore, and seeing that really hurt me.

I can’t stop thinking that maybe he’s not sexually attracted to me anymore or that I’m just not enough for him. It’s not even necessarily the porn itself, it’s more the combination of that plus the lack of intimacy between us lately.