19 perfectly healthy puppies and their mother for one of the litters . They really need to make dog breeding illegal and mandatory spay and neuter laws. I can't post the pics here on this subject but I can send it to you. They deserve justice and Texas needs to do better.
Together 20 years. Both 40. Husband thinks I don't do any chores or laundry which I definitely do. He was super angry this morning because the sink had dishes and says there should never be any dishes in the sink because we have a dishwasher and I had time to sit on the couch at night so I had time to wash and clean everything from dinner. He loves to throw it in my face that I have the "easiest schedule" of anyone he has ever seen , yet "the house is the messiest he's ever seen of someone who has so much free time." No, I don't work full-time, I work two days a week. I don't think that's entirely fair to throw that in my face constantly because he is the one that never wanted me to go back to college or have a career or work much, so this "easy schedule" of mine isn't by my choice like he wanted me to work and I insist on staying home or something.
We also have two kids. Yes, they are older now but I did everything for them when they were little and did/ do all the cleaning and cooking, meaning he doesn't do any chores or cook and he never really has. He will do other things like lawn care and repairs, car stuff is needed. Every time we get in big fights over this I try and say I do clean the house and dishes and laundry, but then he will say well the dirty pan from last night is still sitting in the sink so HELL NO you don't. But that's like one instance - not every single day. To him , if the house isn't perfect I've half assed it and "never clean." I've been getting onto our child to do their chores and he says that I don't do mine, so that's where child their bad behavior from. I didn't go into everything, but I'm just tired of crying and not being appreciated for anything I do because it's not perfect. I understand we shouldn't award mediocre, but at the same YES everyone can do better but I'm not a robot and I don't know...i feel like I will never be a perfect housekeeper so I will never be good enough to him so what am I supposed to do . I might make another post because this is kind of all over the place and I didn't mention or explain thoroughly. Any advice???? TLDRhusband says I don't do anything around the house if he finds things that aren't done perfectly and is oblivious to what I do do because if it's not done perfectly - it's half assed and doesn't deserve thanks. How do I get my point across that I *do* clean, obviously , without it just sounding like I'm arguing?