Mollywood Times healed something in me that I didn’t even know I wanted to heal

Mollywood Times healed something in me that I didn’t even know I wanted to heal

I skipped it in theatres because of the mixed reviews (it would’ve meant an extra 2 hours of travel during my 15–16 hour workdays), and I genuinely regret that now.

I know a lot of people found it boring, all over the place, lacking closure, etc. That’s completely fair, not everyone has to like it. But I do feel that people who simply labelled it “mid” missed what the film was trying to say.

What I took away from it was this:

The amount of hard work, talent and passion you have doesn’t always decide the outcome. A lot of life comes down to luck, timing, societal dynamics, politics, and how you deal with people. Some things are simply outside your control. The only thing you can do is take control of everything else and keep fighting.

That realization is something I came to only recently through my own life, which is probably why this movie hit me so hard.

I’ve never dreamt of making films, but within the first few minutes I could relate to Vineeth Madhavan. That dream you’ve carried since childhood. Support slowly turning into expectations. Relentless hard work. Perfectionism. Absolute belief in your craft, sometimes confidence, sometimes arrogance. Constantly daydreaming about the future you’ve convinced yourself is inevitable.

I’ve lived that.

There was a time when everything seemed to be falling into place for me too. I had money, respect, and stability. But I wanted something bigger, so I took a huge risk, and the returns didn’t not reach upto my expectations.

Then came an opportunity to make that risk worthwhile. Just like Vineeth had Manushyan, I had my own chance. I could’ve settled, rebuilt, and grown from there. But I wanted perfection. I wasn’t ready to accept anything less than what I believed I deserved.
I regret that decision almost every day. And I’m sure Vineeth would’ve too.

Then another opportunity came. Once again, I thought this is it. But the streak of bad luck, politics, societal dynamics, and my own mistakes meant someone else got the glory, just like Sujith Raj.
That was when I realized something I’d been refusing to accept: talent and hard work alone aren’t enough. You have to control every variable you can, and accept that some will never be yours to control.

If the movie had ended with Vineeth finally getting all the recognition he deserved, it would’ve been just another motivational film. Instead, it ends with him deciding to keep fighting anyway. That speech turning silence and hate into applause was the perfect ending. Vineeth is finally realizing that himself, and in that moment, urging all of us to do the same.

That’s what I’m taking away from Mollywood Times.
“It’s not the size of the dog in the fight. It’s the size of the fight in the dog.” So keep fighting.

I may not agree with all of ASN’s worldviews or some of the things he suggests (like the movie deletion idea), but I have immense respect for him for making this film. And I hope I’m not the only one who walked away feeling this… or am I?

u/Voodoo_Maama_Juju — 3 days ago

Renting with GF in Mumbai: Broker says hide it from the owner. Is this safe?

Hey everyone, my gf and I found a great flat in Mumbai, well within budget, nice society, and close to work and the metro.

But there’s a catch: the broker says we can't tell the owner we’re an unmarried couple. He wants the rent agreement in just one of our names and claims the owner lives away and never checks, so we can just live there quietly.

Is this actually safe or a major red flag?

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u/Voodoo_Maama_Juju — 17 days ago
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Renting with GF in Mumbai: Broker says hide it from the owner. Is this safe?

Hey everyone, my gf and I found a great flat in Mumbai, well within budget, nice society, and close to work and the metro.

But there’s a catch. The broker says we can't tell the owner we’re an unmarried couple. He wants the rent agreement in just one of our names and claims the owner lives away and never checks, so we can just live there quietly.

Is this actually safe or a major red flag? Has anyone been in such situations before?

Would love to hear from anyone who has dealt with this in Mumbai. Thanks!

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u/Voodoo_Maama_Juju — 17 days ago

Looking for a Used Sedan in Mumbai

Hey everyone, I’m looking to buy a second-hand car in Mumbai and could use some advice.

I’m not really a car guy, but after browsing this sub for a few days, I noticed many people recommend avoiding apps like Spinny and Cars24. So I’m planning to check out local dealers instead.

My budget is around ₹4 lakh, but I can stretch it to ₹5–6 lakh if the options are significantly better.

I’m mainly looking for a reliable sedan with decent mileage, something I can use without major headaches for at least the next 2 years, and later keep as a practice/training car for my younger brothers.

Cars I’m considering:

  1. Toyota Corolla (my first choice, but unsure about maintenance costs)
  2. Honda City
  3. Maruti Ciaz

Also, what’s the oldest model year or maximum odo reading I should realistically consider while buying a used car in this budget?

Am I missing any good options in this budget? I’m also open to hatchbacks if there are particularly reliable ones worth considering.

Would appreciate any suggestions or things I should watch out for while buying used cars in Mumbai.

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u/Voodoo_Maama_Juju — 1 month ago
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Used Glanza V CVT vs New Glanza AMT for beginner drivers — which makes more sense?

Getting a 2020 Toyota Glanza V CVT (full option) for ₹7.1L, with 48,000 km on the odo, from a family friend. I personally know the car’s history, no accidents, fake readings, flood damage, etc.

I also test drove the new top-end Glanza AMT. It felt more premium and feature-loaded, but the AMT jerkiness was noticeable. On-road price comes to ₹11.92L.

The car will mostly be used on suburban roads with occasional highway drives by my father and brother. They’ve learned driving, but they’re still not very experienced.

Should I go for the used car considering they’re still beginner-ish drivers (due to higher chances of scratches)? Does saving ₹4L+ justify going for the older car despite the lack of newer features and premium feel? And is ₹7L+ too much for a 6 year old car?

u/Voodoo_Maama_Juju — 2 months ago

Buying my first car, but have a heavy Education Loan. What’s a safe EMI?

Growing up, owning a car was the ultimate dream for me. Now I’m finally ready to get one, but I want to be financially responsible. Here is my breakdown:

Monthly In-hand: ₹1.77L
Education Loan EMI: ₹47,000 (I’ll start paying this from next year)
Rent & Expenses: ₹50,000

Context: No major life expenses (marriage, etc.) for at least 2 years. Even then, I plan on a very simple ceremony.

I’m left with 80k, but I need to factor in fuel, insurance, maintenance, and investments. What is the maximum I should safely spend on a car EMI without overextending?

I’m relatively new to workforce, and haven’t done any big purchases yet (except for my overpriced education). Would love the advice from experienced people.

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u/Voodoo_Maama_Juju — 2 months ago