I’m super sensitive to energy. Especially energy of places where emotionally charged things happened. I thought it would be interesting to visit the catacombs. But today I had the thought maybe this is the worst idea for me. Anyone else do this?
Anyone else notice the belittling jabs the father says while filming the Christmas video?
They are small but could you imagine years of them?
The one son is very overweight and the Dad says “we should get you a Santa outfit you look like Santa Claus over there”. Then when the Mom asks “Where is Ryan”? Which is the other brother. Dad says “probably upstairs crying”. Ryan is like 15
There was definitely verbal abuse going on in that house at the very least.
I cannot bring myself to do fun stuff.
In my 20s I recall having a very well developed SE. In my 30s I survived some trauma by hyper focusing on pattern recognition and intuition. Staying inside my head
In my 40s I realized what I did. And now in my 50s I struggle daily to overcome it
SE developing articles always mention activities like making doctors appointments or running errands. I can do that just fine. What I can’t do is any real world fun
I spend more time researching and buying the perfect items for a hobby than actually doing the hobby. I imagine doing all these fun things. I have yoga gear, roller skates, language books, paddleboard, watercolors. But everyday I cannot get myself to do one thing. sometimes I feel sheer panic. Whenever I do something I love it. I think why don’t I do this everyday? but then the next day it’s like I’m paralyzed.
has anyone dealt with this? any ideas? I certainly can’t think my way through this issue. I’m so tired of feeling like a failure daily.
thank you.
I often hear that loneliness and lack of social connections is a huge factor in how we age and our life span.
Do you think that includes INFJs? I’m guessing most studies do not include us. when I hear that “fact” it alwats makes me sad. but then I think I’m so much happier alone.
very consistent. today was the first day I said , “my hair looks awesome“. so there is hope. I started Dec 10 2025. used 5% foam. My hair is so thick now. So good luck to all.
I’m landing in Tokyo at 2pm and headed straight to the stadium. It’s at Meiji stadium but my tickets are in the Giants section. Any way I can get sticks or any orange gear? thanks This is my first game.
I‘d love to door slam. pack up my car and drive to the ocean. however in this chaotic world I’m stuck for a bit.
I have made my bedroom my oasis. it’s 300sq feet of all me and my pitbulls. I love it. I spend most of my time in there.
any other ideas. I try not to talk to the person that much. say hi when I go to the kitchen to make dinner.
is anyone else going through something similar. us working together and sharing the bills means we are doing well and have some security.