u/Washing-machine-pro

(First of all I dont want to post a picture of my face on reddit and it’s against the rules here anyway so I’m sorry about that)

So for context I’m 20 years old and I have always dressed masc. I have a short curly mullet that I like slightly grown out, I have a baby face, no piercings/tattoos or anything, I’m a little above average height, and I’m average weight for a person my height and age. I try my best to dress my age, I put effort into my outfits to make them seem more grown up ish when it’s appropriate. I drink a little bit, but not enough to get puffy face or anything like that (I dont really like drinking anyway)

People always ask me what grade I’m in because they think I’m in highschool and it’s frustrating because I’ve been out of school and working blue collar fulltime for 2 years now and I know that isnt a ton of time but I don’t want to be seen as this little teenager when I’m an adult.

I’ve also been infantilized for it by older male coworkers and I don’t like that at all for obvious reasons.

So basically I’m asking yall what things about a person’s appearance say that they are in fact no longer a teenager? And please don’t just tell me that looking young is a gift and I should just appreciate it because I’ve heard that a million times and I just want to look my age.

(First of all I dont want to post a picture of my face on reddit and it’s against the rules here anyway so I’m sorry about that)

So for context I’m 20 years old and I have always dressed masc. I have a short curly mullet that I like slightly grown out, I have a baby face, no piercings/tattoos or anything, I’m a little above average height, and I’m average weight for a person my height and age. I try my best to dress my age, I put effort into my outfits to make them seem more grown up ish when it’s appropriate. I drink a little bit, I used to smoke weed but I don’t anymore.

People always ask me what grade I’m in because they think I’m in highschool and it’s frustrating because I’ve been out of school and working blue collar fulltime for 2 years now and I know that isnt a ton of time but I don’t want to be seen as this little teenager when I’m an adult.

I’ve also been infantilized for it by older male coworkers and I don’t like that at all for obvious reasons.

So basically I’m asking yall what things about a person’s appearance say that they are in fact no longer a teenager? And please don’t just tell me that looking young is a gift and I should just appreciate it because I’ve heard that a million times and I just want to look my age.

Went to my first job site with a porta-john and was surprised to find a bunch of stupid writing all over the inside. Drawings of dicks, writing on the locks, talking about sucking dicks, the whole shebang. These are grown ass men??? Anyway what are some weird things you’ve found?