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So my best friend is a DA. It been nearly a year since we talked naturally as the friends we once were. She texted me this January after a period of ghosting for months and tired to make plans before I left town for Mexico. She never set a hard date or time and I let her know it was okay, that we could catch up when I returned. When I got back I reached out and tried to make some plans. I made three attempts. My last with ample time, only to see her hanging out with another friend on the day I invited her out with me. It was my last straw. I unfollowed and removed her from my social media. The next day she stopped sharing her location with me.
These texts are her reaching out again for the first time since January. She never contacted me again. What do we think? I was so dumbfounded because she never offered and apology or even and attempt to say we couldn’t be friends in the same manner but that she would always wish me well…the texts were just not clear with her intentions. What do you all make of this?
Really horrible day at work today where I experienced a massive felony level theft. Man was stupid enough to leave a piece of paper he wrote on. Give me your most baneful hex’s I can use and cast tonight. Thank you all.
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Not sure if this kind of post is allowed, but I was doing some searching and reached out to a recommended witch here on Reddit. Chatted a bit about the situation and created a game plan but I wasn’t fully sold. When interacting I felt like my energy pulled away from their’s. Nothing terrible, but a discomfort and uneasy feeling. I pulled some cards on the spell’s outcome with my person if I worked with them vs did my own rituals.
Left side is if I work with them. Right side is if I do my own rituals. Seems pretty clear to me that working with them wouldn’t bring me the results I want. Could cause inner turmoil for my person of interest and make them increasingly unsure if they want to come forward. Right side I interpreted if I do my own spelling work I’d get in their head and reignite some passion and encourage them to come forward with clarity and no hidden intentions.
Finally, the last spread was how my own magic was doing. Took it as I’m growing in my craft and on the right track now that I’m not white knuckling the results. I’ve had a several spells land as I intended them to for myself and friends.
What do you all think?
Not sure if this kind of post is allowed, but I was doing some searching and reached out to a recommended witch here. Chatted a bit about the situation and created a game plan but I wasn’t fully sold so I pulled some cards on the spell’s outcome with my person if I worked with them vs did my own rituals.
Left side is if I work with them. Right side is if I do my own rituals. Seems pretty clear to me that working with them wouldn’t bring me the results I want. Could cause inner turmoil for my person of interest and make them increasingly unsure if they want to come forward. Right side I interpreted if I do my own spelling work I’d get in their head and reignite some passion and encourage them to come forward with clarity and no hidden intentions.
Finally, the last spread was how my own magic was doing. Took it as I’m growing in my craft and on the right track now that I’m not white knuckling the results. I’ve had a several spells land as I intended them to for myself and friends.
What do you all think?
I walked away from my bestfriend who was a DA. We were friends for five years, lost contact for maybe a year and half shortly before my wedding partially because she was in an unhealthy relationship with her then partner. I reached out one day and she responded, but eventually she would start this pattern of ghosting me for weeks to months on end if I said something “wrong”. When we’re reconnect after these periods, she’d always tell me, “I don’t know why, it just really bothered me.” To justify her distance and shutting me out completely.
The last time she contact me was in January. She asked how I was, apologized for being absent in the holiday season and admitted her avoidance was getting to be so bad she needed to start therapy to help herself.
I forgave her, offered to grab dinner with her before I left on my trip. Day of rolled around, she responded but dodged the topic of setting a firm plan. I held out hope and didn’t try pushing her. Kinda did the “wait around by my phone” routine my last day in town when I finally waved the white flag and said I’d catch up with her when I returned from Mexico.
Sent her a handful of photos of the food and city and a “wish you were here!” message. No response. Got home. Asked what she was up to. No response. Offered casual low stakes activities like us going to our favorite shop that was a favorite pastime for us. No response. Finally came to a head when I saw her posting about hanging out with a friend she frequently said she did not like for making some (ehem) anti-lgbtq+ posts when my friend herself was queer…it was the last straw for me. I unfollowed her everywhere. Next day she stopped sharing her location with me. I never heard from her again. This was back in February.
The sad part was, I really believed she missed me and wanted to do right by our friendship and herself when she brought up wanting to start therapy all on her own. I never even punished her for disappearing in the holiday season and nearly missing my birthday. I never heard from her again. I do think of her sometimes and I do hope she’ll get the courage to reachout in her own time with the help of therapy. But I think by the end I got so used to her dipping out on me for any little perceived “flaw” that I was okay to walk away from her and it didn’t hurt so much because I knew I deserved more in a friendship I’d given so much to
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Recently I have been research more with witchcraft and expanding my tarot knowledge and really trying to apply myself. I’ve started having these little senses or thoughts appear in my head at random times of day.
For example, a very close friend of mine can usually tell when I am feeling distressed and reaches out to me. Yesterday the thought, “text her and ask how her move if going.” Which is so strange for me since I think in the abstract. Well, lo and behold, she was struggling. Another wanna tarot reading I did for someone. I thought, “they’re going to meet at a party. Three of cups card.” And the three of cups indeed was the first card to fall out of my deck. Finally, I went outside to walk my doggy, looked up at the moon and heard, “the spell worked. They’ll be back.”
Did anyone else develop things such as this when they started delving further into witchcraft? Is there a name for this other than intuition that I not aware of? Curious to hear what others have to say. Thank you!
Recently I have been research more with witchcraft and expanding my tarot knowledge and really trying to apply myself. I’ve started having these little senses or thoughts appear in my head at random times of day.
For example, a very close friend of mine can usually tell when I am feeling distressed and reaches out to me. Yesterday the thought, “text her and ask how her move if going.” Which is so strange for me since I think in the abstract. Well, lo and behold, she was struggling. Another wanna tarot reading I did for someone. I thought, “they’re going to meet at a party. Three of cups card.” And the three of cups indeed was the first card to fall out of my deck. Finally, I went outside to walk my doggy, looked up at the moon and heard, “the spell worked. They’ll be back.”
Did anyone else develop things such as this when they started delving further into witchcraft?
Hey y’all, currently offering free readings to get some more practice reading for others. I’d say I’m strongest when it comes to love/relationship dynamics. The first three people can ask two questions
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The first row in the reading was my initial pulls and seems to say: he’ll feel nostalgic after things have time to cool down and might feel a rush of emotions to reach out but he’ll probably toggle with these feelings.
The second row was my clarification pull. Immediately the page of swords popped out followed by the high priestess, chariot, the sun, and five of swords reversed. Feels like the clarification is saying: you already know he will, but it’s going to come from a place of the same stuff again and not being able to move on from the not so great attachment.
What do you all think?
Ended a situationship with my DA a few days ago. It wasn’t really a long running relationship, but it was a situationship gone awry. We “broke up” back in October. I struggled hard and got a sort of closure back in November with him, but I had no time to really process with the holidays slamming me into work overload.
Returned back to grad school this January with this person, but my heart and motivation was just completely shot. First day of school we unintentionally ran into each other after two months no contact. I wasn’t ready at all. He called after me and dashed over to hug me after we crossed paths. We continued to run into each other in common areas.
It all boiled over for me last week. The thought and feeling that I was perceptively changed by the mistreatment, manipulation, and lies-so much so that all my friends kept saying I wasn’t the same person anymore. I snapped. I told him I was leaving the program partially because of him. Got into a huge argument publicly. He wouldn’t lower his voice. I said something I regret. A day went by. Silence. On day two he said he was leaving the state. That it should give me some relief. That we owed it to each other to talk out of it “amiably”. I responded that I wasn’t obligated to get back to him right now. I would respond in my own time.
I texted the next day that I was so exhausted I wanted to walk away with peace. I was blocked. Had to respond to sending an email saying if he’d just waited he would have seen me say the same thing. That my emotional outburst the week prior was wrong, but that the base of my hurt and sadness was still there. Got hit with a, “Good luck with everything. I wish you the best.” Got so enraged and heartbroken. I said, “just say you’re sorry. That’s all I ever wanted.” He wrote back, “I’m sorry. Take care of yourself.”
I’m just cycling through all the stages of grief right now. I’m either cycling or just straight up numb and exhausted and just trying to sleep and rest physically as much as I can. I still have a support system around me, but it’s so hard. I genuinely feel numb half the time. I can’t and don’t want to finish school anymore. I just want to collapse and this feeling sucks so bad. I never want to feel like this again. I feel like my light has been stolen.