Hey everyone! I’m from Nagpur and looking to meet some new people and make genuine friends.
If you’re also from Nagpur and up for random conversations, café hopping, exploring places, movies/anime, long rides, or just chilling and talking about life, feel free to DM me.
No pressure, no awkward expectations — just looking to expand the circle and meet some cool people. 😄
M23 | Nagpur
M23 here. I recently moved to Pune for my master’s after working at an MNC, and honestly, I’m starting to wonder if finding a meaningful relationship here is actually that difficult. 😅
I’m not really looking for something casual or just another talking stage. I’d genuinely like to meet someone where there’s a proper connection — good conversations, mutual effort, random plans, late-night talks, and hopefully something long-term.
I’ve tried dating apps, but they honestly feel pretty exhausting sometimes. 😂
So, Pune folks — is it actually difficult to find a genuine relationship here, or am I just looking in the wrong places?
Would love to hear your experiences. And if someone reading this is also looking for something meaningful, feel free to say hi. :)
Hey everyone! 👋
I’m new around the Tathawade/Wakad area and looking to meet some new people.
Anyone around here up for a casual meetup sometime? Could grab coffee, chill, go for a walk, or just hang out and talk. No fixed agenda — just looking to make some new friends and explore the area.
If you’re around Tathawade/Wakad and interested, drop a comment or DM me. 🍻
Hey everyone!
I’m joining MIT-ADT University for MBA in Project & Construction Management (PCM) and wanted to connect with current students or seniors.
Would anyone be up for giving me a quick campus tour sometime? I’d also love an honest review of student life there.
Mainly curious about:
What are the actual pros and cons of the campus?
How’s the MBA PCM crowd, faculty and overall environment?
What’s the social life like?
Does MIT-ADT have any party culture/events, or is it mostly chill?
What are the good places to hang out around campus?
For students who smoke, are there any designated/permitted smoking areas around or outside campus? Don’t want to get into trouble with campus rules 😭
Anything a fresher should know before joining?
Would appreciate the unfiltered version, especially from current MBA/PCM students.
Also down to connect with anyone joining MBA PCM this year!
M23 & F25 I matched with a girl on a dating app recently. She was 25, older than me, super kind, mature, and honestly felt like someone I could genuinely connect with. We had the same relationship goals, same vibe, same interests. She would send me couple reels, relationship stuff, videos of herself, and talk about how relationships should work. Naturally, I started feeling attached.
One day she asked me to go for a drive with her. Before meeting, she asked if I could pick up a bag from her friend’s room first. I agreed. It literally took me around 35 minutes to find the place, but eventually I got the bag and then drove around 18 km to meet her.
We went for the drive, listened to songs, talked about relationships, future stuff, life, everything. The whole vibe felt very genuine to me. I was nervous at times and fumbled while talking, especially during important conversations, but overall I thought the date went well.
After dropping her home, I texted her later that night. She completely ghosted me until the next morning. I got anxious and finally asked her directly what was on her mind.
She replied saying:
“I don’t think you’re the right match for me.”
Then she added:
“Don’t fake things. People usually fumble when they fake things.”
That line hit me hard.
What she didn’t know is that I had severe stammering and speech issues since childhood. I literally couldn’t speak properly until around age 12. My family, doctors, therapy, medication, years of effort — all of that helped me rebuild myself. Even now my stammering is around 80% improved, but I still fumble when I’m nervous or emotionally invested in a conversation.
Her comment reopened a lot of old trauma I never wanted to revisit:
- bullying in school
- embarrassment while speaking
- therapy memories
- feeling “less than” others
I explained this to her, but after that I just told her:
“I can’t talk right now.”
Honestly, I feel stupid for putting in so much effort emotionally after just one person. Picking up the bag, driving all that distance, getting emotionally attached, imagining a future — and then getting rejected over something I fought my whole life to overcome.
Maybe I got attached too fast. Maybe she just lost interest after meeting me in person. I don’t know.
Right now I’m thinking of taking a break from social media for a few days, getting back into the gym, losing weight, and focusing on myself again.
I’m I stupid??
Still hurts though.
I matched with a girl on a dating app recently. She was 25, older than me, super kind, mature, and honestly felt like someone I could genuinely connect with. We had the same relationship goals, same vibe, same interests. She would send me couple reels, relationship stuff, videos of herself, and talk about how relationships should work. Naturally, I started feeling attached.
One day she asked me to go for a drive with her. Before meeting, she asked if I could pick up a bag from her friend’s room first. I agreed. It literally took me around 35 minutes to find the place, but eventually I got the bag and then drove around 18 km to meet her.
We went for the drive, listened to songs, talked about relationships, future stuff, life, everything. The whole vibe felt very genuine to me. I was nervous at times and fumbled while talking, especially during important conversations, but overall I thought the date went well.
After dropping her home, I texted her later that night. She completely ghosted me until the next morning. I got anxious and finally asked her directly what was on her mind.
She replied saying:
“I don’t think you’re the right match for me.”
Then she added:
“Don’t fake things. People usually fumble when they fake things.”
That line hit me hard.
What she didn’t know is that I had severe stammering and speech issues since childhood. I literally couldn’t speak properly until around age 12. My family, doctors, therapy, medication, years of effort — all of that helped me rebuild myself. Even now my stammering is around 80% improved, but I still fumble when I’m nervous or emotionally invested in a conversation.
Her comment reopened a lot of old trauma I never wanted to revisit:
bullying in school
embarrassment while speaking
therapy memories
feeling “less than” others
I explained this to her, but after that I just told her:
“I can’t talk right now.”
Honestly, I feel stupid for putting in so much effort emotionally after just one person. Picking up the bag, driving all that distance, getting emotionally attached, imagining a future — and then getting rejected over something I fought my whole life to overcome.
Maybe I got attached too fast. Maybe she just lost interest after meeting me in person. I don’t know.
Right now I’m thinking of taking a break from social media for a few days, getting back into the gym, losing weight, and focusing on myself again.
Still hurts though.