u/Werewolf_Foreskin666

So yesterday when I had dinner with my older brother, he asked me if I ever had plans to tell the rest of my family about my girlfriend being trans. I told him that I do, especially since she's open about her identity and that the reason for her last breakup was because of her previous partner refusing to be honest with his own family.

He then told me that while he supports the relationship, he doesn't accept her identity. He says, instead of using her preferred pronouns, he is only going to refer to her by name only. Also, whenever he kept bringing her up in our conversation, he kept using the phrases 'person' or 'partner'. I'm honestly not sure how I feel about this.

Part of me feels a bit offended on her behalf but another part of me doesn't want to push the issue further because I don't want him to then see her in a negative light. Thoughts and opinions are much needed and if you have any suggestions as to how to broach the subject with him again, please let me know.

Im a cis guy [27] in a relationship with a trans girl [24] and I want to buy my gf underwear that would make tucking more comfortable. I've asked her last week if it was painful to tuck and her response was "sometimes yes". On top of that I noticed how small and tight her panties are and I can't imagine that would be comfortable to wear either.

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However, when I tried searching around the web Im a bit surprised of how pricey they can be. I wouldn't want to cheap out on her either but getting only one pair for about 30 bucks seems a bit too much for underwear. Would you happen to know any sites or Etsy sellers that offer budget friendly alternatives where the quality isn't cheap? If not, could you also suggest any brands that are have some of the best quality? Please and thank you!