u/West_Ad2321

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In need of some advice.

Hey everyone. First things first, I know a lot of us are here for the same reason, so I just want to tell all of you who are struggling right now, I’m really sorry. This is a terrible feeling and it’s currently crushing me right now. So to those of you are in the same boat as me, you are not alone.

Okay, so I got blindsided by my breakup just this Friday and I can’t even begin to tell you how torn up I am. When I was told, I tried to come from an understanding place, but everything I said seemed to come off the wrong way, so we ended things by coming to an agreement that I’d reach out to her at a later date. That way she’ll have some space and I can collect my thoughts.

If my intention is to have a good conversation that’ll give her some things to ponder, what’s a good approach to take?

The goal, and I’m not afraid to say it, is to maybe leave the door open for reconciliation. Whether that now, or later in life. What’s y’all’s advice?

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