u/Whathappened2Jayne

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I've been on the fence about posting,but if I don't do it now how will I find what I'm looking for. I'd like to meet someone reasonably in the northeast pa region also close to the same age( older is ok). I'm not looking for a hookup ,we would definitely have to have the emotional connection that evolves to a physical connection. I do have a career that keeps me somewhat focused and I'm not saying I don't have time to chat/talk but there would be times that I can't reply immediately and I hope that you would be understanding. I'm in a DB relationship which I can't walk away from so there's that. I'm easy to get along with and if you want to reach out to me I'm here. ✌️

I met a nice guy in the wild,he is a contractor I hired. I felt a draw to him and as time went on ,he became friendly and of course I was intrigued because this man is...in my eyes very attractive.

We have been texting,nothing more than discussing the remodel.

Today he sends a text and he said" are you up for some fun?".

I replied I'm at work until x time. I suggested meeting for a drink and discuss the remodel ( no harm no foul)

His reply" I have a SO".

Wtf?

I then texted him " Are you married to SO? Are you in a db ?

His reply " I dont know what you mean".

As much as I was looking forward to finally meeting someone and good looking to boot...I'm thinking this wouldn't be a good thing. Right?

We met on AM a few years ago,hit it off, met a few times for adult fun. I was and still am impressed by him and the way he treats me when we are together , he's genuine in my book.

We don't have everyday communication, it's more weekly and that's cool. The recent email he sent he apologized for being out of touch and explained that his wife is going into retirement and told him she's filing for divorce. I didn't know how to reply other than I'm sorry you're having to go through this.

We penciled in a date to see each other, which I felt good about seeing him again.

Here comes the But, the question.

He will be single in the very near future and as much as we hit it off and have a great time together, Do I want to continue to see him , crave him and all that good stuff only to possibly one day hear him say "I'm seeing someone and it's serious ".

I'd be happy for him but I don’t think I want to hear it. I don't want to feel that sting and the sadness. So do I bow out and not see him ?