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For context, my best friend’s destination wedding is in a few months. I am the only person in the bridal party with a child, and I am also the only person who will be traveling with their partner. Everyone else in the bridal party wants to get 2 hotel rooms and we all stay together while we’re there. I told them I would be willing to get a hotel in the same hotel so we can all still hang out. I also suggested we could get an airbnb so we could all be in the same house but still have our own space, it would also be cheaper. Everyone has said they don’t want to and it would be a better bonding experience if we all stayed together. To clarify, I am a childhood friend and everyone else are college friends. I’ve only met there people 2 other times. I told them that stay in a hotel with all of them with my daughter and my boyfriend isn’t realistic. My daughter is a horrible sleeper and would keep everyone awake. They suggested that my boyfriend get a separate hotel room and keep my daughter. I do not want to do that. I told them I could stay one night with them and leave my daughter with her dad, but I don’t want to be away from her every night for a week. Am I being unreasonable for not wanting to do that?

edit to clarify: This discussion has happened in the bridesmaid group text. My friend (bride) is not in it, I did message her separately but she has not seen it yet because she is currently at work.

not sure if this is the right sub, but i figured maybe y’all could give me an answer? if not, can someone direct me to the correct sub? anyways, here’s my question. what age would you consider it safe for a child to ride in a side x side? to clarify, we spend a LOT of time at an RV park/campground. we don’t trail ride, we only ride on paved main roads. there are no cars/trucks, just side x sides and four wheelers. we pretty much ride the side by side up to the pool, store, restaurant, and other campgrounds in the park. tya!

Just applied for the merchandise manager position for the store that is opening near me soon. can someone tell me what the responsibilities of the merchandise manager are? is it typically day shift? or just whenever you’re scheduled?

**NOT asking for medical advice**
I tried to post this in the nexplanon sub but i swear you can’t ask anything in that sub without mods deleting it. anyways, i recently found a nice size lump in my arm under the implant. i will be going to my doctor on friday to have it checked out. i’m not asking for medical advice here, i’ll get that Friday. i just want to know if anyone else has experienced this with nexplanon.

i’m moving my 9 month old to her convertible car seat soon (Graco extend2fit 2 in 1) and i have a question. i know i can use the anchors OR seatbelt. is one considered safer than the other? does is matter which i use? i plan on getting it checked by a CPST near me, but just wondering. i know this may be a stupid question but i’m a first time mom & worried about car seat safety

looking for a place to have my daughter’s first birthday party, really wanting somewhere inexpensive. there will be around 30 people invited (who knows if they’ll all show though). i just want somewhere that can accommodate everyone and i can decorate a little

Is there any way to submit time a time off request while at home? I don’t work until Monday but I need to put in my request now. I’d like to avoid going into the store on my days off if I can