Imagining you can wave a magic wand and fully control when you get pregnant/have a kid, which would you optimize for: the age gap between kids or the season/month in which they're born?
Bonus if you want to share your reasoning.
A quick rant.
For the love of whatever you find dear or holy, STOP TOUCHING KIDS THAT AREN'T YOURS.
I had my daughters (3 years [edited because people thought I meant 3 months! whew, no!] and 10 months) at the library yesterday, and my 3-year-old was playing with Legos they had in a children's area. My daughter has gorgeous Shirley Temple ringlets—everyone always compliments them when we're out and about.
Another mom came up to return some of the Legos her kid had played with, and she smiled down at my daughter, looked at me, looked back at my daughter...
and reached out and TUGGED ON A RINGLET and then walked away in the blink of an eye!
My daughter looked up confused, but otherwise unbothered, and it took every ounce of self-control not to snap at the other parent to keep her fcking hands off my kid.
"Keep your hands to yourself" isn't just for kids, apparently.
End rant.