u/Whole-Reality5616

I work in a kopitiam, got paid around 8 to 6 ringgit per hour, all of it was enough and I was greatful, but i start to realise how much time im wasting from working, time is like a currency; you waste your time to create money, and i realise im going to miss out certain things and waste my whole teenage years working, so i decided to take two day breaks from every week to do some hobbies and even play games or like spend time.

But one time my dad says, “Aren’t you supposed to be at work.”, I then replied, “Its my off day, i just need some rest, its not like i live in that place lol”, well his reaction was unexpected because he was angry, and even my mom was too, my dad yelled at me and called me having no life and accused me of masturbating?? And my mom says im a lazy asshole with no use, they even force me to get out of the house to go to work.?

What did i ever do to them? I just wanted rest and im not being controlled by them, i just wanted to have rest, the other reason is my loved ones even told me to have some rest and said i was too young to work there? Who else advice should i even have to follow lol

I know, he has been impaled with poles, but how did he even die from that, was that an accident? i just wanna ask because i want to know if sky died after tunner got shot by wenda

when i was around 12-13 i dont get enough love from my parents, they love me sister no matter what, is it because shes a girl, is it because shes younger, my mom always call her “good girl” countless times even if shes 8 years old, and i feel so sick of hearing the words everytime feel like shes treated like dog, but sometimes i do good stuff and my parents will only scold me for the slightest thing in it, and my dad is so easily to be angered with that any smallest slight mistake he will beat me for it and sometimes i might get slapped for it

well i wanted to find someone who hears my feelings and when i was 14, i found a boy named xavier, but the thing is we were the same gender, but who cares? i have someone who respects me, someone who cares for what i do, a true love. we were like 1 year apart, but then my sister found out and told me parents, and they got mad at me, they slapped me, they made me like the black sheep and even put like alot of parenting control apps to the point i need to ask my dad to permission to unblock one website.

and my dad would blame me for everything and dont let me speak when i was in the blame, and one time i was in trouble again and like got so upset i even yelled at him about why cant they love me more or like if you dont love me then dont have me and he kicked me out the house, (thankfully i came back like a few hours later), well you thought some family members would be supportive, but when some heard his voice they say that voice is so ugly, you see my family knows im gay and people made fun of me for it like im different for who i am but i cant control it unless if i use violence

i even told my friends my true feelings, and most of them were grossed out and some said i make them feel uncomfortable and one of them, it was like a suicidal friend who i helped through his depression, he made some fucking rap roast song about me with some random ass friend and even calling me the f word (yk what i mean), i even felt that i wasnt in the right room and started to ask for permission to use the restroom and sit there just to bawl my eyes out quietly saying that why do i deserve this

well after all that i noticed something wrong with my bf and realised that he might be like a red flag, sometimes he would just say random things and even start to creep me out so i decided to break up with him.

at 15 i decided to tell my dad im gonna move on but suddenly he got angry for that and started to shout at me saying i might be with him still and even threw my phone on the ground, my mom tried to calm him down and he attacked her, thankfully it was calmed down after i told him i broke up with me, but still to this day he still suspects me for it.

i was shocked for all this to happen all because i have love to the same gender, but as i am writing this i feel like people would say this is bs and probably id guess this post would be removed by the ep mods but i cant prove this to be true, so what do you think?

Hi just to let you know that im 15 for now and a male and im chinese so yeah my english is kinda bad, im malaysian so the currency is rm like 1 rm is 0.25 usd for now

Growing up since i was 6 there would be this event which everyone knows is called the chinese new year, people give red envelopes full of cash around from 5 Rm (1.25 Usd) to 200 rm (50 usd).

Well id be the favourite kid at that time because i was young, and i think ive gotten around 20 to 25 red envelopes when i was 6. But when i got to the bedroom, my mom ask me to give everything saying she can keep everything so she will give it back at the end, but i didn’t really understand whats inside the red envelopes so i just gave her everything.

At my birthday i got more presents than money gifts which all the money is to my mom of course, and at 7 i take a peek in one of the red envolopes and saw money and i got excited but due to the tradition its considered bad luck so i closed it and never told anyone, but when its time for my mom to take it i tell her “why cant i keep it?”, well that didn’t really end well as for her to get angry and react very mad but out of fear i used follow what she says or else. Well that year i suddenly went on a trip to japan like unannounced.

Well giving red envelopes or like money packets to my mom was like a normal thing to me when i was like a kid, i even started to think maybe money was my moms property at the age of 9, well at the age of around 12 to 13 i secretly kept like a red envelope and there was like 20 rm (5 usd) in there, well i bought like random stuff with it and it was like gone that fast, i realised money can run out quick and i think its right to give my money to my mom so she can keep it for my so called future.

At 14 i was saving up for like something so i asked my mom if i can have the money she was saving up for me but she got defensive and started yelling at me, well i didnt want to like interfere with her so i just stop asking, well i thought she was thinking i was planning to buy like what adults thought teenagers would buy like drugs or some crap, but why would she think i would buy drugs? I was trying to save my money at that time!

Well I think ive found out she wasnt saving money for my future she was using them for like shopping or japan trips or something she always get excited about it when she can buy something else or even save up for her children’s futures lol

So at 15 i decided to keep all my red envelopes this year, ive got like 12 to 17 red envelopes and all of them combined was like i think 570 rm (142 .5 usd) well when i got back home my mom keeps asking about the money but i said im saving it so she got really angry and threatened me with a knife yelling at me my dad tried to calm her down like a officer trying to defuse a bomb and yeah did calm down for now after i gave her my savings, well i was really shocked seeing her this angry like i think she was money hungry and was always greedy, i thought she was a strict buddhist but eats beef anyways?

A few months later i started working a part time about (6.5 rm/hr (1.625 usd) (ik but 6.5 rm feels like 5 usd to me), and it was like a part time in my grandpas kopitiam, and my dad took a pic of me working on facebook and you get all that shit, but all that hard work went all down to my mom in like a day, she accused me for putting a pen in the washing machine and even taking my savings in the process with about rm 1309 (327.25 usd) and i couldn’t do anything but cry because she could like kill me and im too young yeah

Well what the fuck will the police do arrest her? I have no proof to show her she stole my money because all “children are liars”

Update: I got my money back today because my dad argued with her (btw my dad is worse than my mom so dont think hes that good)

My mom blamed me for putting a pen in the washing machine, and blamed me because i used a pen to write and i said ive never used a gel pen but she didnt believe me and scolded me and tried to slap me but i showed her the pen i use but she got angry trying to not be wrong and then she yells at me she wants to buy a new washing machine and slams into my room and takes my whole savings with a total of 1043 rm and i tried to get it back but she yelled at me she can report me to the police and lie I stole her money instead
I cant prove this is real but whatever