u/Whole-Tap5727

i had my first visit with the GAL, my daughter is one so it was brief. He asked me about the accusations which I proved were false right then and there.

Should I be reaching back out to him or what do I keep him updated on? I am confused on what is going on with the GAL the last court date was him, the lawyers and the judge and the next date, next month they said it would be the same but it’s called a “trial” for some reason.

Should I be telling him my concerns or updating him in anyway? Or let him reach out to me? It almost seemed like he was implying it was a one interview and done type of deal.

Can I put something along the lines of the baby has to stay with the father at his address and cannot stay at another address if not agreed upon by the other parent?

Should I just ask him for the address and whose house it is if he really wants to take her there?

so my babies father was kicked out of my house after telling him for two months he needed to leave due to a corn addiction that was not being treated. I allowed him to come and go in my house even though it was weird for me so he could see his daughter.

Instead of staying locally, he stayed an hour away in hotels and told me he was going to bath houses and hooking up with men off sites and dating girls. He is on all the dating apps which is fine. But I don’t want my daughter around his hook up tendencies and this stems from his corn addiction that I am also very concerned about that with our daughter.

He then called CPS on me, filed a restraining order and then dropped it 2.5 weeks later and even after all that I still allowed him to visit his daughter. I told him he could have her one night and he texted me and told me he wasn’t giving her back so I went over there and he called the cops and the cops released her to me. Since then I have been scared he wouldn’t return her. We are in court now and I he hasn’t had an overnight with her since February and also hasn’t been around her that much since Easter. She has changed so much and eats solids now and is sleep trained. I just started this week allowing him short visits and trying to gain trust back after being difficult since February. He is acting so nice now (I think he knows the court is going to rule in my favor due to it being the best interest of our daughter) he also hasn’t gave me a dime.

The one day I let him take her he sent me a picture of her and him in this house I didn’t recognize, I have saw other pictures of him in this house too and it’s an hour or further away from where we live. He isn’t from here and has no friends so I am so confused on whose house this could be. It also seems like he is never in the area. He doesn’t tell the truth constantly and told me our daughter was sleeping and was heading home from the city but the time stamp on the pictures reflected different.

Idc if he has moved on or it’s a friend or whoever tbh but I feel like with his bad decision and reckless behavior I should be able to know where she’s at and whose she’s around. Every time he has asked me, I have told him the address and whose house and what we were doing which is normally only seeing family and having my best friends come to my house.

Any tips or things to add to my plan or what to do about this?

Can I put something along the lines of the baby has to stay with the father at his address and cannot stay at another address if not agreed upon by the other parent?

Should I just ask him for the address and whose house it is if he really wants to take her there?

so my babies father was kicked out of my house after telling him for two months he needed to leave due to a corn addiction that was not being treated. I allowed him to come and go in my house even though it was weird for me so he could see his daughter.

Instead of staying locally, he stayed an hour away in hotels and told me he was going to bath houses and hooking up with men off sites and dating girls. He is on all the dating apps which is fine. But I don’t want my daughter around his hook up tendencies and this stems from his corn addiction that I am also very concerned about that with our daughter.

He then called CPS on me, filed a restraining order and then dropped it 2.5 weeks later and even after all that I still allowed him to visit his daughter. I told him he could have her one night and he texted me and told me he wasn’t giving her back so I went over there and he called the cops and the cops released her to me. Since then I have been scared he wouldn’t return her. We are in court now and I he hasn’t had an overnight with her since February and also hasn’t been around her that much since Easter. She has changed so much and eats solids now and is sleep trained. I just started this week allowing him short visits and trying to gain trust back after being difficult since February. He is acting so nice now (I think he knows the court is going to rule in my favor due to it being the best interest of our daughter) he also hasn’t gave me a dime.

The one day I let him take her he sent me a picture of her and him in this house I didn’t recognize, I have saw other pictures of him in this house too and it’s an hour or further away from where we live. He isn’t from here and has no friends so I am so confused on whose house this could be. It also seems like he is never in the area. He doesn’t tell the truth constantly and told me our daughter was sleeping and was heading home from the city but the time stamp on the pictures reflected different.

Idc if he has moved on or it’s a friend or whoever tbh but I feel like with his bad decision and reckless behavior I should be able to know where she’s at and whose she’s around. Every time he has asked me, I have told him the address and whose house and what we were doing which is normally only seeing family and having my best friends come to my house.

Any tips or things to add to my plan or what to do about this?