Need guidance and tips please

I am joining a new organisation as a senior engineer manager. It is one of MBB and I was a tech lead with managing experience to a smaller team.

What are some of the things I shd do to manage work, and set myself for success in my leadership role.

I am reasonably good with respect to technical strength.

Any guidance is really appreciated.

I have been feeling Imposter Syndrome as well lately and pushing myself to go out of my comfort zone.

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u/Will_Dewitt — 4 days ago

Guide me with ways to sell a flat in bellandur

It is a Spacious 3 bhk 1625 sq ft 3bhk in a small community of 44 houses in green glen layout.

It is Ekatha(B katha) building but A katha land.

Has cauvery water also.

Expecting around 1.2cr.

It is an 18 years old property , I have done good interior also for 15lak.

What are some of the brokers or portals which can help me sell the property faster?

Thanks in advance.

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u/Will_Dewitt — 6 days ago

33M Married with 2 kids 7, 3- finance review please

Combined income of household is 5.2lak per month.

I have 60 lak invested in stocks , mutual fund+ us stocks.

Have a car - No loan

1 Flat in native worth 20lak no loan

1st flat in Bangalore not gated community - 30 lak loan pending - 40k monthly emi - worth 1.2 cr now

2nd plot i bought - 64lak loan pending - 56k monthly emi- worth 1 cr now

3rd Flat bought now paying emi - have Registration and interior pending - 1.6cr loan pending - 1.2 lak emi - worth 2.1 cr now

Monthly expense -

Kids school and day care - 40k

Wifi, phone, other house hold- 10k

Maid and Cook - 10k

Grocery + Gym + Protein - 25k

Car maintenance+ insurance+ medical + fuel - 15k

Total expense - 3.2lak

Investing all the remaining - 1.8 to 2 lak

What shd i change?

I still feel I am drowning.

Reason for the plot is to use it as my kids college fund.

Reason for the new flat is kids are not having ways to play here so bought in a community for them to have other kids to play and explore.

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u/Will_Dewitt — 12 days ago

Sarjapur - Attibelle Plot

Hi I bought a plot in Sarjapur Attibelle road , Confident Polaris ( resell) is it a good investment and what is the person sq ft now that the infy land is on case now?

I am looking for a timeline of 10 years so I can use that money for my kids college fees.

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I didn't go for mutual fund coz plot is the only place I can get home loan and I can feel I have some property.

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Requesting honest opinion.

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u/Will_Dewitt — 14 days ago

Panathur 4bhk flat suggestion

I feel panathur is perfect for Sarjapur road, itpl and Bellandur as it is on center and schools are also near by.

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Price wise trendsquare Akino in panatur seems good and planning to book there.

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I work in RMZ ecoworld and wife in Embassy Tech Village.

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Is my decision to buy this project Good or are there any other suggestions?

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Looking for honest advice and also advice from existing panathur residents on your experience of traffic and other problems.

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u/Will_Dewitt — 15 days ago

Married in 30's

I am 33M with 2 kids and got married a bit early as my mother got married and had me in her early 40 she wanted me to get married a bit earlier and I got married at 24 arranged marriage as I was not lucky with love.

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We both grew together started from 0 now we make like 2.5lak each post tax per month.

Have own house car and stuff without loan. And a new flat just got on loan of around 2cr in Bangalore.

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We both are introverts and till now life was busy trying make something out of ourselves and ended up with hardly any friends. With a 7 and 3 year old kids we are reasonably super busy all the time and have no time to for us and others as well.

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Life feels like a dead end running towards a never ending black hole.

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Is this what life is all about?

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Sorry for the rant .

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u/Will_Dewitt — 17 days ago