a positive encounter. 🩷
so, nearly three weeks ago I shared an incident with y’all as a cautionary tale.
I think that we should also speak of the good that comes after the bad.
I met someone last Thursday and it healed me in a way. made me less scared of new people.
he pulled me in almost instantly. the minute he stepped out of his (nice) car, it was over for me! 😩
he looked better than in his pictures. in the age of AI, it shocks me when someone not only meets but rises above expectations.
also, he had a chain on. accessories tend to be a weakness of mine.
he’s the only son so he feels the weight of expectations. I asked him if he wished for a brother (someone to divide his responsibilities with) but he said he’s very close with his sisters and couldn’t imagine life without them as he talks to them daily.
he sent me a video the other day of him at a mandi. he was with his sister because his brother-in-law wants Eid (sacrificial) animals to care for. thought that was funny.
he’s also a surgeon. educated men..🫦.
the surprising part: whenever I text him, I get a response within thirty minutes. this is a foreign concept to me. the guys I’ve been interested in have left me hanging so often. to not have to wait on someone? that’s half of what I’ve been wanting.
mind you, this man is 28M while I’m 23M.
so I knew going in that it wasn’t going to turn into anything but I love whatever this is.
I just need to find a way to keep his attention.
(the sex was nice too.)