u/WirWaers

English isn't my first language so pardon the weird phrasing, but I hope I can get my point across.

I got a video of a woman and a dude rolling on my homepage. She triangle chocked him out. Nothing special but the video got posted on a non-bjj-subreddit and the comments are absolutley disgusting. Every single comment is sexualizing her. They don't get that there is nothing sexual about someone trying to dislocate you joints.

I love this sport, it's so fun, but I am (95℅ of the time) the only woman in my gym and I am already always scared to make the guys uncomfortable, it's a really big insecurity of mine.

I just want to cry. The guys at my gym are great and nothing bad ever happened to me and nice but reading those comments really upset me. They are so SO gross. How do you, especially those, who roll with guys most of the time, deal with this? Do you just not think about it? Do you just not read the comments?

Gibt es das? Ich liebe mein Studium (Digital Engineering, bitte nicht fertigmachen wegen dummer Studiengangswahl, ich war jung und dumm, aber ich hab Spass), aber in dem Betrieb, in dem ich arbeite, mache ich nichts anderes als Excel. Datenauswertung. Ich kanns nicht mehr sehen und es kotzt mich an. Muss ich einen Master dranhängen, damit ich aus dieser beschissenen Industrial-Engineering-Sparte rauskomme? Bitte Hilfe. Ich bekomme jede Praxisphase die Krise und kann es gar nicht erwarten, wieder in die Uni zu dürfen.