u/Witchofthewickedwest

I would like to share my 7 day reconciliation working , this one in particular is for couples that have been broken up for 3 months or less , a few things to note , you can work with any dieties that are associated with love I personally use demons in my practice but feel free to work with whoever you're comfortable with , let's get to the spell 😁

You need:

One 7-day candle or seven separate candles

Love oil (rose + lavender can also be used)

Cinnamon and sugar

White or brown paper/parchment

Pen

Optional: rose, lavender, frankincense, or cinnamon incense

Optional herbs associated with love/reconciliation

1. Prepare the candle

Carve the target's name and date of birth on the bottom of the candle.

Carve your name and date of birth on the top.

Dress the candle with love oil. You can add a small amount of cinnamon and sugar to the oil/dressing.

2. Write the petition

On the paper, write the target's name and DOB 3, 7, or 9 times.

Turn the paper clockwise.

Then write your own name and DOB 3, 7, or 9 times, crossing/overwriting toward the target's name.

Turn the paper clockwise again.

Write a concise petition such as:

\> “Come back to me, restore our relationship, and bring love, communication, and reconciliation between us.”

3. Dress the petition

Place a little love oil on the four corners and center of the petition — five dots total.

Add a small amount of cinnamon and sugar.

If using incense, pass the petition through the smoke.

4. Set the candle

Place the petition on a plate and soften a little wax from the bottom of the candle so you can secure the candle directly over the petition.

Light it and pray over the working.

You can invoke the Holy Trinity, a particular deity, or no deity at all, depending on the tradition you're following.

5. Work it for seven days

With a 7-day candle, divide its total intended burn time across the seven days rather than leaving it unattended.

Each day, spend some time praying, visualizing reconciliation, and repeating your petition.

If using seven individual candles, burn one candle per day.

The focus should remain on reconciliation, renewed communication, affection, and restoration of the relationship, rather than forcing a specific action from the other person.

After the seventh day, you can read the remaining wax and dispose of the petition/wax according to your usual practice.

Now for the important question WHEN WILL I SEE RESULTS and the answer to this question is no one knows it can take a couple of days or a couple of weeks and even a couple of months , a rule of thumb is if by the third lunar cycle if you don't see results you can do a recast or you can do something more heavy and please note that like everything else in life spellwork isn't guaranteed. Happy casting ! I will share a spell with y'all once a week if you'd like suggestions comment below and I'll pick the most requested workings

Blessed be 🙏 ✨

I would like to share my 7 day reconciliation working , this one in particular is for couples that have been broken up for 3 months or less , a few things to note , you can work with any dieties that are associated with love I personally use demons in my practice but feel free to work with whoever you're comfortable with , let's get to the spell 😁

You need:

One 7-day candle or seven separate candles

Love oil (rose + lavender can also be used)

Cinnamon and sugar

White or brown paper/parchment

Pen

Optional: rose, lavender, frankincense, or cinnamon incense

Optional herbs associated with love/reconciliation

1. Prepare the candle

Carve the target's name and date of birth on the bottom of the candle.

Carve your name and date of birth on the top.

Dress the candle with love oil. You can add a small amount of cinnamon and sugar to the oil/dressing.

2. Write the petition

On the paper, write the target's name and DOB 3, 7, or 9 times.

Turn the paper clockwise.

Then write your own name and DOB 3, 7, or 9 times, crossing/overwriting toward the target's name.

Turn the paper clockwise again.

Write a concise petition such as:

\> “Come back to me, restore our relationship, and bring love, communication, and reconciliation between us.”

3. Dress the petition

Place a little love oil on the four corners and center of the petition — five dots total.

Add a small amount of cinnamon and sugar.

If using incense, pass the petition through the smoke.

4. Set the candle

Place the petition on a plate and soften a little wax from the bottom of the candle so you can secure the candle directly over the petition.

Light it and pray over the working.

You can invoke the Holy Trinity, a particular deity, or no deity at all, depending on the tradition you're following.

5. Work it for seven days

With a 7-day candle, divide its total intended burn time across the seven days rather than leaving it unattended.

Each day, spend some time praying, visualizing reconciliation, and repeating your petition.

If using seven individual candles, burn one candle per day.

The focus should remain on reconciliation, renewed communication, affection, and restoration of the relationship, rather than forcing a specific action from the other person.

After the seventh day, you can read the remaining wax and dispose of the petition/wax according to your usual practice.

Now for the important question WHEN WILL I SEE RESULTS and the answer to this question is no one knows it can take a couple of days or a couple of weeks and even a couple of months , a rule of thumb is if by the third lunar cycle if you don't see results you can do a recast or you can do something more heavy and please note that like everything else in life spellwork isn't guaranteed. Happy casting ! I will share a spell with y'all once a week if you'd like suggestions comment below and I'll pick the most requested workings

Blessed be 🙏 ✨

Sugar Jars vs Honey Jars — What’s the Difference? 🍬🍯

I see this question pretty often, so I figured I’d explain how I personally distinguish the two.

Both are sweetening workings, but I don’t use them for exactly the same situations.

Sugar jars are what I’d reach for when I want a quicker change in someone’s attitude or behavior. The intention is to “sweeten” the person toward you—making them more pleasant, receptive, communicative, affectionate, or less hostile.

The tradeoff is that I personally find sugar work better suited to situations where there is already some openness. If someone is extremely stubborn, resentful, or deeply committed to a particular position, I wouldn't necessarily expect a simple sugar jar to produce a dramatic or lasting change.

A basic sugar jar can be made with a small clean jar, white sugar, a petition containing the person's name and your intention, and herbs or curios appropriate to the goal. Place the petition in the jar, cover it with sugar, close the jar, and work a candle over it while focusing on the situation becoming sweeter.

Honey jars are different in the way I approach them. Honey is slow, thick, and persistent, so I associate honey work with gradual sweetening rather than an immediate shift.

If I'm dealing with someone who's particularly resistant, cold, stubborn, or emotionally entrenched, I'd be more inclined toward honey. The idea isn't necessarily to force an immediate reaction. It's about gradually making the person more receptive and allowing the situation to become sweeter over time.

For a basic honey jar, you'd use a clean jar, honey, a petition with the person's name and your intention, and appropriate herbs/curios for your goal. Put the petition in the jar, cover it with honey, seal it, and work a candle over it periodically.

For example, I'd consider a sugar jar for things like:

• Making communication friendlier

• Easing tension

• Encouraging someone to be pleasant toward you

• Taking bitterness out of an existing interaction

• Situations where you want a relatively quick sweetening

I'd consider a honey jar for:

• Reconciliation

• Gradually rebuilding affection

• Someone who's very resistant or stubborn

• Long-term relationship sweetening

• Situations where I want the change to develop gradually

One thing I wouldn't present as a universal rule, though, is that certain zodiac signs cannot be affected by sugar work. I've personally noticed differences in how people respond to different workings, and someone might associate stubbornness with certain Earth-sign personalities, but that's an observation—not a universal Hoodoo rule.

Personally, the simplest way I describe the distinction is:

Sugar = quicker sweetening.

Honey = slower, deeper, more gradual sweetening.

Neither one is automatically “stronger.” I think the important thing is matching the working to the situation instead of automatically choosing whichever one promises the fastest result.