u/Wonderful-Volume-565

Maybe I missed something but I’m unsure of where to get these items

So I’ve had no previous relationships, despite being in my older twenties. Her and I are both female and I myself am not a hundred percent sure of my sexuality, but am open to dating a woman. I overall am happy with this new experience and the time we’ve spent together.

No one in my immediate circle knows we are dating (even though from what I’ve heard they may suspect something).

The thing that worries me most in all of this is not
that the people closest to me are not fully aware (although I did not like being untruthful 100 percent in some areas- this mostly bothered me early on).

Rather, I’m worried that the relationship is falling apart because sometimes things are said that aren’t really amusing but I get told my emotions are what get in the way, it makes me feel like I can’t express sadness in the relationship and just have to suck it up (even if what’s been said is genuinely hurtful to me). We both love to laugh, so I’m not really sure how to feel.

I’ve also felt (more so in the past) that what we have in common is not substantial and isn’t going to hold the relationship together (we both enjoy opposite things from one another). Even though we try to engage in each other’s activities it is a slight worry that we do not match and her friends are probably more suited to her interests than I could be.