u/Wonderful_Tourist790

Okay so I’ve been with my boyfriend 23M for about a year and 6 months and at the beginning of our relationship I had my doubts on whether it would last or not mainly due to the fact that I don’t think we are compatible and last month just confirmed my doubts . So this is my first relationship and boyfriend and I’ve never been intimate with anyone before him . This is going to be a little tmi but when it comes to being intimate together I’ve had to have discussions with him about getting too rough in the bedroom because I don’t like and it’s not my vibe . So we had gotten intimate again one time and we discussed prior about before about how I don’t like anything Rough and I want to feel safe and cared for intimacy wise . So fast forward we mess around and finish , this man ends up slapping me across the face as a joke and I got so upset with him because we had a conversation prior on why getting rough in the bedroom makes me uncomfortable and he kept saying it was just a joke , it was a playful slap but I didn’t care I found it disrespectful . He apologized for it but I was still in belief he would slap me after I was so specific that I didn’t like stuff like that . But anyways we haven’t gotten intimate since then and it’s been two weeks and i can’t lie , I feel uncomfortable around him and annoyed . I know he apologized for the slap because it was a joke but I still feel like that wasn’t okay