u/Wooden_Version2912

So, I've (25F) been dating my partner (31M) for over a year now. He's extremely loving and caring towards me and treats me really nice but he's extremely controlling at least according to my definitions of a controlling person. He comments on my outfits and gets furious if I wear something that's even 1% revealing, he doesn't let me go on a trip with my friends, he gets furious when any random stranger texts me on any social media and even when I post something and people react to it. Guys am I overreacting or am I actually stuck in a toxic relationship?

I really don't want to hurt him but it's extremely mentally exhausting and I don't want to waste either of our time.