I’m having an issue using the luxe portafilter for making a quad espresso. Sometimes it works great but other times the machine stops grinding the beans and the luxe portafilter is only filled half way. I’ve seen other people complain about it being filled 3/4 but this is definitely half or less. Does anyone know how to fix? I only got the machine less than a month ago so I’m wondering if I should return it for a new one.
I really need some help. I have been long distance dating my partner who’s been in residency while I finished school for around 3 years.
We recently moved in and I will start my career, also in a very demanding stream of healthcare. I’m looking for advice. I’m unsure if I should continue in this relationship. I’m finding he’s been deleting things on his phone, one being been on a dating app. I thought I got over these things but it seems he continues to be deleted parts of his conversations with women. Not exactly sure what’s that about. I know about the stereotype of doctors and cheating but I’m wondering if these are warning signs. He’s cheated in past relationships and been honest about this. This is my biggest nightmare is being cheated on and not finding out because he deletes evidence. I’ve let him go through my things whenever he needs and he does. I have nothing to hide and have always said that. He on the other hand finds it extremely upsetting. I’ve realized that in these conversations I can’t say “I get the sense you’re deleting things” I have to have an example for him to “defend”. It’s like I can’t express concerns it has to be an air tight proof and evidence that I present to him.
The other issue is I’ve just moved in but thankfully have my family close so I can leave whenever. But I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry. My partner does not cook and sometimes when he ventures into bbqing, it doesn’t turn out that great. So the other day we were bbqing together and I try so hard to not nag and be polite but I said we should turn down the burners. He later freaked out on me saying I micro manage when he does try. Maybe I do? But if he does it, it ends up being burnt. I have a lot of cooking experience so I find it hard to not say a few things as I don’t want our groceries going to waste. I’m not sure how I could do this better as last time I just didn’t say anything and it ended all being burnt. So I’ve kinda just started doing all the cooking, bbqing. I guess I’m just thinking future wise, yes we’ll have money to hire cleaners and things like that but once we have children, I’m really concerned by workload will just increase exponentially.
The other thing is I’m scared I’m loosing myself once I get into stressful periods of work and then feeling like I have to care for someone else on top of myself. He doesn’t cut his nails and it really upsets me. So I just started doing it for him because I would hate for patients so see that and think less of him. He can’t reach his feet so I guess that makes sense. He used to say his ex would do it for him all the time so idk I felt like now I have to? Sometimes when I bring concerns up to him he says that it adds stress to his work. And I get it he’s in an incredibly demanding residency but I’m just not sure how to continue if I can’t voice concerns.
Some other concerns, he doesn’t think I need to get Pap smears and I really wanted laser hair removal but it doesn’t want anyone seeing that area. I know that’s like a huge red flag when I write it out but now seeing this all together it sounds horrible.
Anyways I’m sorry for the long post I just have so many thoughts circulating in my head and I’m genuinely not sure what to do. He’s incredibly supportive of me and loves me but living together has really changed a few things for me and I would like advice. Thank you.
I really need some help. I have been long distance dating my partner who’s been in residency while I finished school for around 3 years.
We recently moved in and I will start my career, also in a very demanding stream of healthcare. I’m looking for advice. I’m unsure if I should continue in this relationship. I’m finding he’s been deleting things on his phone, one being been on a dating app. I thought I got over these things but it seems he continues to be deleted parts of his conversations with women. Not exactly sure what’s that about. I know about the stereotype of doctors and cheating but I’m wondering if these are warning signs. He’s cheated in past relationships and been honest about this. This is my biggest nightmare is being cheated on and not finding out because he deletes evidence. I’ve let him go through my things whenever he needs and he does. I have nothing to hide and have always said that. He on the other hand finds it extremely upsetting. I’ve realized that in these conversations I can’t say “I get the sense you’re deleting things” I have to have an example for him to “defend”. It’s like I can’t express concerns it has to be an air tight proof and evidence that I present to him.
The other issue is I’ve just moved in but thankfully have my family close so I can leave whenever. But I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry. My partner does not cook and sometimes when he ventures into bbqing, it doesn’t turn out that great. So the other day we were bbqing together and I try so hard to not nag and be polite but I said we should turn down the burners. He later freaked out on me saying I micro manage when he does try. Maybe I do? But if he does it, it ends up being burnt. I have a lot of cooking experience so I find it hard to not say a few things as I don’t want our groceries going to waste. I’m not sure how I could do this better as last time I just didn’t say anything and it ended all being burnt. So I’ve kinda just started doing all the cooking, bbqing. I guess I’m just thinking future wise, yes we’ll have money to hire cleaners and things like that but once we have children, I’m really concerned by workload will just increase exponentially.
The other thing is I’m scared I’m loosing myself once I get into stressful periods of work and then feeling like I have to care for someone else on top of myself. He doesn’t cut his nails and it really upsets me. So I just started doing it for him because I would hate for patients so see that and think less of him. He can’t reach his feet so I guess that makes sense. He used to say his ex would do it for him all the time so idk I felt like now I have to? Sometimes when I bring concerns up to him he says that it adds stress to his work. And I get it he’s in an incredibly demanding residency but I’m just not sure how to continue if I can’t voice concerns.
Some other concerns, he doesn’t think I need to get Pap smears and I really wanted laser hair removal but it doesn’t want anyone seeing that area. I know that’s like a huge red flag when I write it out but now seeing this all together it sounds horrible.
Anyways I’m sorry for the long post I just have so many thoughts circulating in my head and I’m genuinely not sure what to do. He’s incredibly supportive of me and loves me but living together has really changed a few things for me and I would like advice. Thank you.