u/Working_Tourist4633

So I think I may be dealing with a FA (he’s also an Aquarius for those into astrology lol) We started talking 6 months ago. First couple months we literally messaged all day everyday, morning to night, even during the work day..talked about anything and everything. We’d send music everyday, Q&A during the workday, messaging at night.. it became a solid daily routine. During that time he was asking what my love language was, what my dream house would be, what was on my bucket list. one of his bucket list answers was wanting a wife that’s his best friend that he can be himself with, offering to help me with things around the house, etc.

A couple months in I admitted I was starting to have feelings for him, which he gave me this long reply about how truly amazing and genuine I was and it was definitely not me but he was too vulnerable and couldn’t be anything more than friends at the time (he’s been hurt a lot in the past) So we kept it at that and things went back to normal for the next few weeks. Home life got stressful and the hot/cold began.. one of our last texts he promised me he wouldn’t completely disappear on me, and then went digitally silent. 1 text in 8 weeks. BUT, this whole time since we’ve been talking, even during the silent weeks, he still come into my job every single week and he only comes to my line. If I’m busy he’ll stand to the side and wait for me, he won’t go to anyone else. Some weeks he seems really nervous, doesn’t say a whole lot. Not sure what to make of it.. I felt like there was a connection and it was heading somewhere.. did I just imagine the whole thing? I’ve been trying to give him space by not reaching out, but I don’t want him to think I don’t care, so navigating this is difficult as it’s my first experience dealing with a FA.

Thoughts and insight?

So I think I may be dealing with a FA (he’s also an Aquarius for those into astrology lol) We started talking 6 months ago. First couple months we literally messaged all day everyday, morning to night, even during the work day..talked about anything and everything. We’d send music everyday, Q&A during the workday, messaging at night.. it became a solid daily routine. During that time he was asking what my love language was, what my dream house would be, what was on my bucket list. one of his bucket list answers was wanting a wife that’s his best friend that he can be himself with, offering to help me with things around the house, etc.

A couple months in I admitted I was starting to have feelings for him, which he gave me this long reply about how truly amazing and genuine I was and it was definitely not me but he was too vulnerable and couldn’t be anything more than friends at the time (he’s been hurt a lot in the past) So we kept it at that and things went back to normal for the next few weeks. Home life got stressful and the hot/cold began.. one of our last texts he promised me he wouldn’t completely disappear on me, and then went digitally silent. 1 text in 8 weeks. BUT, this whole time since we’ve been talking, even during the silent weeks, he still come into my job every single week and he only comes to my line. If I’m busy he’ll stand to the side and wait for me, he won’t go to anyone else. Some weeks he seems really nervous, doesn’t say a whole lot. Not sure what to make of it.. I felt like there was a connection and it was heading somewhere.. did I just imagine the whole thing? I’ve been trying to give him space by not reaching out, but I don’t want him to think I don’t care, so navigating this is difficult as it’s my first experience dealing with a FA.

Thoughts and insight?

If an Aquarius man goes from texting all day everyday for 2 months, asking your love language, telling you his bucket list is having a wife who’s his best friend, offers to help with things around the house if I need it (I’m recently divorced), and tells me he trust me and promises not to disappear on me... then goes hot/cold and becomes digitally silent for almost 2 months.. All while still coming into my job every single week and standing to the side until he can get my window because he won’t go to anyone else but me…
does he have feelings for me or am I completely delusional? Why the sudden pull back? Never dealt with an Aquarius, I’m an Aries and out of my element lol.