I keep trying to get the next smoking upgrade worth 2k, and everytime I get close I lose my points. It's 3 times in a row now so I've lost close to 6000 points and I'm so disheartened. I like the game but I'm so demotivated and now feel so behind because of my mistakes. I don't want to cheese the game or lower the difficulty. Can I get some tips or advice on this? Has this happened to other people or am I just stupid??
I recently found out my partner was cheating on me by sexting random dudes online. She thinks this was due to untreated BPD and how she described her experience that feels accurate enough to me. I just feel awful. My heart says to try to mend things, or at least leave the door open to that possibility. But my mind says to run for the hills. If it's her mental illness that caused this was she really in control? Is she fully to blame? I feel so stupid as I saw the signs something was wrong. I guess I was just in denial or thought we would get through it.
Has anyone ever came back and healed a relationship like this? Can I have the person I fell in love with back or is it pointless to try?