u/WorryUsual

Just got laid off my electrician job and trying to seek another job in blue collar or a good paying gig.
Any recommendations??

What’s a nice restaurant I can take my gf to celebrate her birthday in or around round rock??

My mom [F39] has been struggling a lot in life, whether it was bad people who put her in horrible situations or having a tough time living life with work, sleep and her car. She says she feels like someone did a bad omen on her to wish her bad in life. Today she found a dead bird on her car that was already dried up and says that last night she heard an owl whistling when she came out at 3 am. My question to the people of reddit is what can this be an indication of??

Small edit:
She gave me the correct timelines after i posted this
Says she found the bird then a week later the owl happened, says that she found some rlly white poop that when she tried washing it with water it disintegrated.

To give context my gf and I have a long distance relationship, she is currently studying 5 hrs away from me. But lately we’ve been having problems and she is the type of person that turns off her location and un adds me on every social media platform when we argue. Ive tried talking to her for months that i don’t like that she does that, but through time i just came at peace with it even though it has built some insecurity that she does it to be with someone else. Another thing she does that bothers me is that she dedicates every weekend to her friends. Being long distance i crave doing some activities with her even though if its through the phone for I can only go see her max once a month. Ive tried planning activities for us to do but if plans with her friends come up she agrees to go with them and this is also an issue ive tried talking to her for months.

Recently we had a situation were she told me she was on the phone with her mom and we were texting while she was but suddenly she left me on delivered for over 25 min with it being 12:30 ish in the morning i was confused as to why she hadn’t atleast let me know she was going to sleep. I texted her and she told me she was in bed already and i just started over thinking so i asked her if she could show me the phone call that she just had with her mom she started complaining that why was i acting the way i was and that we should just go to sleep. With that response i started getting more defensive wondering why she had trouble showing me something simple that would resolve the issue, I tried telling her that if she didn’t show me that bigger problems would come out of this. Later she told me she deleted her phone calls. That created a whole situation were we stopped talking for a week till i came to peace with her explanation that she was just scared to show me bc she thought i would get mad that she wasn’t on the phone as long as she told me.

A week later (now) we’ve come into another situation but now she has blocked me on everywhere and it all started last night when she told me about how she felt like being lonely and drained and i tried telling her i was there for her she then replied that im not and i got the idea to call which i mentioned to her she told me we could but i wanted some reassurance from her that she did wanna call, i mean i was trying to help so i just wanted to do what she thought was best but not even a minute past and she told me she was going to sleep and i got defensive bc i was trying to be there for her and she wouldn’t let me cause she was preferring to go to sleep. The thing that gets me is why does she tell me shes having problems but then she acts passive about it. I got upset and started ranting about how i wanted to call before going to sleep and that shes selfish for the reason being that we only call when she wants.

Now i believe i made a mistake acting upset and defensive but now im blocked and now i don’t know what to do, im unsure wether i should try driving to her tomorrow and try resolving things or just end things in person or go at all.

Also im sorry for the long story theres a lot thats been on my mind and im hoping the people of reddit can help me.