My boyfriend wants space when I need him.
I am (22F) , he is (22M)
We have been in relationship for 3 years
now LDR on and off .
Whenever we get into a little fight he goes away for some time but that break is very very difficult for me .
He says he needs some space to calm down himself and then come back to me ...but all I want is whenever we are getting into a fight why can't we just drop the topic why can't he just say leave this topic for now and he with me and comfort me. He will come back after 2 3 hours but I need him right then at that time present with me solving that fight. Why is it so difficult for him and also it's a really difficult moment for me when he goes away even though I know he will come back but It just makes me feel lonely and scared whenever he goes. I don't know what do I do in this situation.