u/Wrong_Past5203

Hi, I have a couple of queries about a MK I want to sell after having it for 18 months and deciding it is not for me:

1. Will this result in a ban in the UK?

N.B. the bag is not 'brand new' as I have worn it a few times, and I bought it over 18 months ago. Still, will they link it back to my profile if the buyer brings it in?

2. Can anyone advise the best place to sell it?

Love Luxury and Sellier are quoting 30% commission, VC is similar. I was considering Ebay as they have no selling fees, but also don't want a bait and switch or anything bad like that to happen.

Thank you for any advice you can give!

I (32 F) have been wondering for a very long time if my 34 (M) husband is gay, I will just give the pro’s and con’s and please give your views – as I really need to know whether to divorce him and I know he will never confess.

Not Gay

Caught him sexting a woman shortly after we got married, they were having regular phone sex and she was sending photos of her body etc

Gay

Not interested in sex, has never really been overtly interested (we dated for 6 months before we had sex and I made the first move). We are now 6 years into our relationship, it dwindled to once a week for a while - but for the last 6 months nothing at all. He cannot get an erection or if he does he cannot maintain it. He is on Cialis (I forced him to see a Dr) but even that doesn’t work and he has no interest in me, does not kiss me, touch me etc. (I am 32 young, pretty and slim for the record!). He does not even want to attempt sex, or any kind of sexual intimacy including kissing.

One time I was away, I rang him and he lied and said he was at a restaurant but he was at home. I knew he was doing something dodgy. He blamed this on ringing Samaritans, and said he had been suicidal. He got out phone records of him ringing them multiple times. He does not have depression, see a Dr or take meds. I wonder if he is ringing them because he is gay and doesn’t know what to do.

His family is South Asian and would not accept him coming out – a reason to be closeted.

He has been chatted up a couple of times at the gym before by men. Once he gave his number to a man, and said it was because he felt awkward and didn’t realise he was trying to chat him up. The man was messaging to meet, my husband was laughing about it and showed me he had ignored them.

There is another ‘gym’ man who my husband has explained to me he met at the gym a long time ago and they are friends. I do not know if this man is gay, but he could be as no gf/wife and 40ish. I went on his phone and read the messages and although they all seem above board – they were regularly texting one another to see when they were both at the gym. The other man would often message ‘have you left already?’ They were NOT training together. I wonder if this was to meet for sexual activities in the locker room. And the man was asking to meet for dinners etc to ‘catch up bro’ with my husband saying ‘looking forward to it’ with the man responding ‘Me too.’ A lot of messages sent by this man were asking to meet my husband, with my husband not responding. Hard to tell if this is normal chat or not, but often he would ask my husband how he spent his weekend and my husband would say ‘with family’ when it was with me. This man he was messaging does not have a partner or children, and I only see one reference to me in years of messages.

He very into fashion and ‘dressing up’ spending a lot of money on designer clothes. He used to spend a lot more on me, but now it all seems to be about him.

PLEASE GIVE YOUR THOUGHTS.