▲ 95 r/ChildSupport+1 crossposts

Child support

So I’m going to court on the 24th and some new stuff has developed in my case.
My ex hasn’t paid me in about 9 years. I have sole custody of our child. He owes me around 74,000.

About a month ago he randomly paid
Me 2,000 dollars. Told me where was living, told
Me he got this amazing settlement and bought a new property, building a house. Told
Me he gets paid under the table through some what not app. Claimed he can’t work full time because he wants to spend time with his dad ( I have this all in writing )

Then completely fell off the face of the earth.

I told dhhs everything, they now have a lien on his property ( which he jointly owns with his girlfriend)

The attorney general is joining me on my court case.

What should I expect to happen?

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u/WrongdoerAdept9485 — 3 days ago

Question about contempt

Hey there so, my ex is 74 k in back pay for child support.
He has never paid me since this began, and does not see or talk to our son at all. It’s about about 9 years. Sometimes I get some payments here and there. Like I got his stimulus checks and when dhhs found out where he worked I got SOME money from his pay check until he quit a few weeks later and worked under the table. ( none of these were voluntary).

Ok so fast forward to today, I finally held him in contempt and he reached out to me and “ apologized” for everything said he wanted to be in our sons life and then paid me 2,500 dollars which I thought was shocking. I wasn’t able to get him served because I didn’t know where he lived.

Well through text, he told me how he was getting paid through some Cash App selling gold and silver, he told me the town he was living in so I found out he owns property and a house, and he also told me he received a money settlement.

I’ve let dhhs know and I was able to get him served. We have court at the end of august
Will the judge think he is in contempt now that he made that one time voluntary payment? After he did that he never reached out to our son and has completely ghosted me.

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u/WrongdoerAdept9485 — 1 month ago

Question about contempt

Hey there so, my ex is 74 k in back pay for child support.
He has never paid me since this began, and does not see or talk to our son at all. It’s about about 9 years. Sometimes I get some payments here and there. Like I got his stimulus checks and when dhhs found out where he worked I got SOME money from his pay check until he quit a few weeks later and worked under the table. ( none of these were voluntary).

Ok so fast forward to today, I finally held him in contempt and he reached out to me and “ apologized” for everything said he wanted to be in our sons life and then paid me 2,500 dollars which I thought was shocking. I wasn’t able to get him served because I didn’t know where he lived.

Well through text, he told me how he was getting paid through some Cash App selling gold and silver, he told me the town he was living in so I found out he owns property and a house, and he also told me he received a money settlement.

I’ve let dhhs know and I was able to get him served. We have court at the end of august
Will the judge think he is in contempt now that he made that one time voluntary payment? After he did that he never reached out to our son and has completely ghosted me.

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u/WrongdoerAdept9485 — 1 month ago

Montréal trip

Hello! This is my first time traveling to Montreal with my 11 year old son. What are some really cool don’t miss out places we should check out?
We are spending 3 days there.

Thanks! Any food spots too :)

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u/WrongdoerAdept9485 — 2 months ago
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So I did a sour jar

I did a sour jar and wondering if freezing wasn’t a good idea?

So I made a sour jar with milk, water, vinegar, 9 nails, black pepper corn and a lot of chili flakes. I then wrote the names of the people who have caused me great harm and continue to do so with a large x across their names. I then wrote down the incantation and folded the paper away from me and put it into the jar. I shook the jar with rage and read my incantation out loud. Then I burned a black candle let it burn all the way until

The end wrapped the jar in the aluminum foil to keep the energy in the jar and sealed it with the black wax. Then put it in the freezer.

Should I put it somewhere else?

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u/WrongdoerAdept9485 — 3 months ago
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Hex?

Hello,
I found this spell and I’m not sure if it’s worth doing.
It’s taking the names of the people who hurt me and writing hex over it, then folding it away from me three times. Then putting it in a boiling pot of water with chili pepper and cayenne. Boiling it really
Hot then flushing it down the toilet.

This is for my ex and his horrible girlfriend. They attempt to make me miserable at ALL costs and I need them out of my life. Or at least to experience the justice or karma in what they have done.

( ex husband used me for a greencard, left me for his affair partner, tried to force my 3 year old to call her mom, almost bankrupted me with court costs, divorce is over and now these two just try and make my life as miserable as possible.)

I’ve done a cord cutting spell on my ex and I’ve done a freezer spell as well.

Maybe I shouldn’t mess with a hex but I don’t know what else to do.

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u/WrongdoerAdept9485 — 3 months ago