u/Xostides

here is a link to the review I quoted(Asexuality: Sexual Orientation, Paraphilia, Sexual Dysfunction, or None of the Above?): https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-016-0802-7

"It is axiomatic that if we do not define ourselves for ourselves, we will be defined by others -for their use and to our detriment

-Audre Lorde

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