Where am I in the aroace spectrum?
Hey guys, hope yall are doing good. I’m trying to figure out what I am, and even after intensive research I still can’t find anything.
I’m bi/berriomantic, so basically I lean a lot more towards women (sometimes it shifts a bit tho), but still have some attraction to male aligned people. For girls I’d say I’m quite the opposite of aromantic and asexual, but for guys I’m so confused.
I’m pretty asexual for men, but sometimes, even if it’s rare, I get actual romantic attraction to them. It usually comes after deep emotional bond, so I thought of Demi-romantic. From what I’ve heard tho I feel like both Demi and ace apply to all genders instead of just guys…
So yeah, I was wondering if there was more of a term for Demi romantic towards men and asexual only for men, but not aroace for women- am I just leaning somewhere on the aroace spectrum or is there some actual terms? Thank you to anybody who can help !!
Side note: I’m NOT a bot, I have low karma because I barely use Reddit T^T