r/LGBTeens

I’ve liked this girl for about a year now (I’m bi and she likes girls but doesn’t use a label). The thing is she’s my best friend in the whole world. I’ve tried to get over her but I just can’t. And she says she wishes she had a girlfriend but I don’t want to just be her girlfriend just because she wants a girlfriend. I want her to like me. We’re both going to college in the fall and she’ll be 7 hours away and I’ve said I’d drive there some weekends. The thing is we are very compatible. We both want to travel the world and are similar in a lot of ways. I just don’t wanna ruin our friendship but I don’t see myself getting over her anytime soon. Any advice?

So I (16m) consider myself as bisexual, tho I don't feel any attraction to being in a romantic or sexual relationship, am I asexual or something like that? I've had some talking stages before but it always ended by me saying I didn't feel like being in a relationship. Is it just that I'm not ready or am I a-something? I'm honestly so confused.

Edit: also, being in a relationship is something I recently wanted to "experience" but as I said it really ended in me saying I don't wanna be in one