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I fear for a CF life if the partner dies.
Hey I wouldn’t say I’m open to dating now, I’m a 23 year old male who’s still figuring himself out, wanting to know what to seek…
I’m a fence sitter and while a CF life can be very fulfilling.. I can imagine being in my 60s 70s and not regretting a CF life if I choose it. However, this is a very dark thought but, what would a CF life look for someone who lost their partner in their 50s+? I would imagine with kids there’s still love and purpose, but in a CF life most of the focus is on the partner and no accidents can be prevented and life can take its course.
I know this isn’t a reason to have kids, I know this is pessimistic thinking, but it’s a scenario that can happen that I always think about as a fence sitter…
u/YeahPrivacyPlz — 3 days ago