u/Yesica-Ulloa

I am 35, I am married and I have two children. I don’t work and take care of the children and housework.

My husband is quite wealthy. He works a lot to provide for me and the children. I appreciate and respect this very much. But I feel like I am losing connection with him.

After the birth of our second child, which has been during the last year. We barely spend time together, we started arguing more often, and he stays late at work more often.

Instead, he gives me presents, pleases me and the children. However, I have repeatedly said that we should spend more time together as a family. During the year, he has never fulfilled this promise.

Also, he completely stopped being interested in the children as well. He has no idea what after-school clubs our older daughter attends. What her academic success is and how our younger daughter is developing.

Instead, he is constantly disappearing at work and business meetings. Several times, when organizing dates to be alone together, he missed them. It was hurtful to me, and every time I said that if this continues to repeat, I will just leave.

And so, one day, I hired a nanny and rented a beautiful chalet by the sea so that we could relax there together for our anniversary. I informed him about this and said that I would be waiting there. However, he didn’t even come, and he didn’t answer calls.

Arriving home, I just packed my things, the children's things, and left. I left him a note where I explained that I was tired of living in the status of a single mother.

He, however, still doesn’t see any problem in the fact that we barely communicate and don't spend time together, and says that I acted rashly.

AITJ

I am 23 years old and I live with my friend. We have known each other for a long time, have always been quite close, communicated well, and trusted each other.

Recently, she asked to borrow my computer because hers broke down and she urgently needed to do some work. I agreed but asked her to be as careful as possible since she doesn't always treat her own things responsibly.

I also explained that there is a project on the laptop that I have been working on for a long time, and I asked her not to touch anything there.She was supposed to return it that same evening but wrote to me saying she would keep it for a few days.

It was inconvenient for me, but I agreed to wait. However, even after a few days, I still hadn't received the laptop.

When I called her and asked her to bring it urgently, she said it was stolen and that she was afraid to tell me right away. According to her, it happened in a cafe, and the police said it would be hard to find it.

I was very furious; I don't believe it was stolen. In the past, she has already lost her phone and keys, and she admitted herself that she often just loses things.

I asked her to compensate for the cost of the laptop since I need it for work that I have to submit, and which, by the way, was also on it. She refused and called me petty.

AITJ

I financially support my younger sister while she is studying, the main condition is her diligence in studies. I believe that during studies she should focus on education , not on money so I regularly help her.

I bought her a car and send money every month. Besides this, additional expenses for things like tutors, educational trips and textbooks. I do this out of trust and a desire to help , because I was a student myself and I understand how difficult it is.

However, recently I found out that she was not using the money as she claimed. Instead, she skips classes and her academic performance has worsen ed. She often goes to to parties, travels and constantly spends time on entertainment.

After talking to her I realized thgat she has lost motivatrion and does not take her studies siriosly . After I decided to reduce and limit financial support so that she would understand the value of money and learn responsobility her decision.

Now she is anjgry at me I control her and no longer support her

AIO